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i have a 4 yrs daughter, she goes to jr.kg. In the first month she was going happily, since last month she was having cough and cold and was on antibiotics, she used to do potty/susu in her shorts in 4-5 days in school, but now it has become a routine every 2-3 days she does the same in school, teacher sometimes complains which is very ackward situation, i beat her a lot and sometimes i try to teach her with love that this is not good. She says she is afraid of the school toilet gutter, snake will come out of it but i convinced her in every way. I am very tense abt this situation totally blank what to do?
She is very smart pretty and brilliant girl otherwise, but how can i get her out of her fears?
Please help.
Thanks. indian replied. 1.As soon as she gets up give her some warm water. so that she moves her bowl before her school timings.
2. avoid giveing her milk before schol for few months.
3. U take her to the school toilet and explain to her that there is nothing wrong if she needs to use the toilet.
4. talk to her favourit ayyamma (at school)ask her to take her to the toilet during breaks.
Lets see if this work. As her mother give her some more time to settle to the issue never shout at her.