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Hi all,
My husband went through some surgical procedure recently.And since it was major surgery he went throw some mental trauma too.and he had some nearly death experience.It was a tough time for me and him.Now the problem is he doesn' t want to believe in saving money.just want to give it away as his relatives are asking.his saying is why saving??nothing is permanent here.anyway i am going to die.Since we don' t have kids i can' t tell him to save money for them too.Don' t know waht to do?.He was giving before also, but atleast concerned about his future & mine too.but now he doesn' t care.What will be the best answer i can give it to him???please suggest. DDD replied. Hello,
If your husband is telling that he will die, he doesn' t need money and you guys don' t have kids too...
it doesn' t mean that you are also going to die, tell him that after his death what you are going to do (i assume that you are not working/earning), you need money for your lively hood, for your health, when you become old etc.

Good luck Diya replied. I want to add to previous comment:
He is doing perfectly fine & healthy now like a normal person.thank you