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Hi,

I have been married for 3 years and staying with my husband. My parent-in-laws are staying in my native state with my co-sister(my husband' s younger brother' s wife), my BIL is studying in other city.Last month when I went to my in-laws place for a week I found my co-sister taking too much care of my husband and my hubby also giving her too much of attention. I talked to my hubby regarding this and told him that I dont like him giving any lady too much of importance. He agreed to it and didnt talk to her for last 3 days of our stay. I trust my husband too much and undertsand that he has a soft corner for my co-sister as she is staying with his parents and taking care of them.

My problem is I am unable to forget this incident and keep thinking of that. I feel like my co-sister is trying to take away my hubby. I am scared of visiting my in-laws again. What my worry is during my next visit to my in-laws how I ll stop my co-sister.

Thanks for ur help!! dia replied. Y dont u think other way round? Probably he has positive opinion as she is taking care of his own parents well and might not have any weird feelings over her? she has her own husband and has nothing to do with ur hubby.Ok?!! Just stay cool and u can think over if he buy everything for her whatever he buy for u etc...
If u keep suspecting him, he might get special feelings over her which he had never before. So take care of that.
Let him have brotherly feeling over her. Unnecessarily dont nag him if u dont have much certainity over this issue. Just leave it ...And next time when u visit them. be friendly to her and never show ur feelings on ur face ...it might damage ur image. Be careful, friend.

Sometimes imaginations make our mind like hell and might think wrong too.
I' m not saying u r completely wrong. But dont feel tensed .if u r in respectable family, ur co-sis never can dare to do what u r frightening about. Same with ur hubby too.