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My daughter who is 2 yrs 8 months goes to a montessori from this month. Earlier she used to go to a play school and was cheerful there. I never got much complaints from that play school regarding her taking food or about wetting her pants.
Here in this school everyday i hear complaints from her teacher saying she doesn' t eat her snacks and i have to give something more interesting as she asks them to feed her. The teacher says we have other children to take care of and we cannot feed her. I give her dosa, upma, chappathi etc which she normally likes. She doesn' t take breakfast in the morning and hence i send such things. And then the ayamma will have a complaint everyday that she wetted her pants.
I really feel like crying everyday as other kids don' t seem to be getting any complaints. I really have started feeling that these people have started hating my daughter because it has become a regular habit with the teacher and ayamma to complain about her eating and peeing in her pants.

My daughter never tells for susu but would do if i take her to the bathroom. That way i make sure she never wets her pants at home. But in school probably they expect her to tell and are not taking her to the bathroom at regular intervals. I cannot talk much to the teacher and ayamma as i don' t want my child to be affected at school and we have paid heavy admission fees. What to do ? prao replied. Hi

Two things u can do to help your daughter adjust to her new school. As her teacher said give her some thing interesting in her snack box.. somethng simple that she likes.. biscuits.. fruits.. once she gets used to eating on her own u can start packing her regular breakfast again

The problem for her wetting her pants.. she may not be comfortable using the bathroom in school.. since it is a new place.. try using those training pants (pull on diapers) they r a bit expensive.. but u put them on like her underpants.. so it is easy for the ayya to remove and put back on when she takes her to the toilet.. and if your daughter does susu in her pants also it wont leak since it is a diaper
u can discontinue this when she is comfortable in her new school