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Hi frds,

I am living in a joint family and facing the humilation and tana frm my in laws....

my hubby always takes my in laws side and i have accepted this as his nature...

next week my hubby and his mom are planning to go to SIL function leaving me at home.... my MIL always does like this.. she never takes my along and if i do the same (by chance) than there is lot of drama at home... after marriage we have never gone out for a movie without our MIL....

this tm i don't want him to go to attend the function bec SIL insulted me a lot during her recent visit at our place... (bithing and all)

shall i give 1 or 2 sleeping pills to my hubby so that he shd not wake up in the mor to catch the train... if yes than which one????? or any other medicine due to which he feels slightly unwell......

THIS TM I JUST DONT WANT TO GO HIM... this way my MIL shows her upper hand... its very depresing for me.... no use of discussing with hubby.....
PLZ HELP IF THERE IS ANY OTHER WAY OUT... N.Y.C. replied. Sleeping pills..That's some serious stuff.

It depends if it's prescribe by a doctor..or if you got them at a drug store.

Whatever it may be..just be careful! There is not gaurantee that sleeping pills will work(Don't experiment!) rajo replied. i think what you should do is insist that you will also accompany them.go to your SIL's house and behave as though nothing has ever happened and that whatever your SIL did to you did not affect you at all. show that you are extremely pleased to be there(though in reality you are not)and enjoy yourself communicationg with people who are your sil'S RELATIVES.Don't extend any help to your MIL or SIL but be very nice to your SIL'S side relatives and do a few hospitable things for them. your husband will not see anything wrong in this ,and even if he questions you ,you can tell him that you are only helping your SIL take care of guests and that you are only doing your duty. your MIL might be upset and may throw up a tantrum but you should not bother about it. me replied. if u r thinking of giving sleeping pills to him then itz not wrong even if he tortures u...how did u think that??my gosh...u will ruin ur life if u think like thiz...try to talk n solve or juzt move our frm him Nidhi replied. hi there,
well i dont think that this is the right think to do, just if ur hubby comes to know about it, u will spoil ur married life, this is not the way u should think as far as i think, i can understand ur problem, but the only solution i can think of is tht ur hubby need to understand that u guys need to have some privacy in ur life. sit and talk to him bout how u feel, dont say that u dont like when he supports his family, but tell that he needs to take care of ur feelings too. sit and talk to ur MIL what is her prob sit ans solve things or else ur life will b ruined, cos hubbys support is the most, and if u give sleeping pills how many times will u do it ? some day or other things will turn worst for u guys.
then its ur wish
take care n all the best