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i have got a baby boy of 11 months old...frm his birth untill now i dunt have any sexual libido or any interestes..i am short tempered now....b4 thiz i was a pleasant ,fun loving girl who spend most of my time productive...but now things changed..i can realize my changes..my husband encourages me to do something productive rather than 24 hrs of kitchen n childcare..but i am mostly engaged with my boy n feeling that i am not caring my hubby at all..he iz very adjusting so he adjust it well.but he teases sometimes that\";momma needs viagra\";..i am very much upset...actually after 5 months of my child's birth i was ok..but things are going very worst...i am not interested in anything..always angry,sad etc..i am trying my best to take of my hubby now...

there are some issues in my family after my baby's birth...my inlaws b we....we broke up after my baby's birth..so they are always giving me mental tension right frm the first day..and itz becomeing worse day by day..secondly they will curse my hubby like anythign with all but for spending they asks him to do without any hesitance....i am very much feeling like bafooons...

will thiz posthormones works after 10 months????
or my family issues might b aprob??
or myself a prob??

even i cant find which one iz the prob ...n plz give m,e some solutions??ne one suffering by the same prob? Ariana replied. It sounds like you are suffering from post natal depression.People with this condition,try to cope not realising there's anything wrong with them.They also feel paranoid,and try to get on with things,but it is not your fault.Go to a doctor and find out if what i suspect is true.Talk to your husband about this,tell him you love and care for him,but you've not been feeling well.With help you can become your normal self and get your sexual drive back.It upsets you when your husband teases you of your lack of sex,although it's not your fault it must be hard for him too.Think about what it is that really upsets you and discuss it with someone,it's good to talk about your feelings because the more you block things out,the worse they get.Go see a doctor,best wishes.