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My husband loves crowd be it friends or (his)relatives. We have a group of friends. Now my husband introduced all his good freinds to his relations as a result of which these in-laws of mine get invited by my friends get togethers. The problem is not my in-laws being invited, but these friends do not invite thier in-laws (who reside close by in the same city) but only my in-law. In the get-together my friends join hands with my in-laws and start appreciating/boosting each other leaving on the arch (this is a very delicate situation which only a person who has tasted can comment which others cannot even fathom). Whenevr I ask them about their relations, my friends say they are busy/sick/out of town etc (so far I have not maintained any direct contact with thier inlaws).My husband being a simple man is ignorant about the whole thing as he is kept happy in the crowd. He does not even understand me when I try to explain and rather gets angry on me (however when he has to visit my relatives he tries to maintain a bare minimum contact).How do I react in this crowd? Should I call my friend's inlaws too so that the recipe is balanced? Should I ignore the moral boosting & de-boosting? Should I avoid the crowd? Again I say, only people who have tackled this type of problems need to answer me.

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