Why do husbands take their wife for granted??
Not everyone in this world, but most of men does it. They will never have time for their wife, no affection, love. They just use their wife for all the needs and never cares how do wives feel about it or about their any feelings.
Where as they have all wordly time for their beloveds (parents, siblings) and show lot of love, affection, talk to them for hours together etc.
Being a victim of this husband's attitude, just want to know , how to overcome this feeling and keep ourselves happy.
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Why do husbands take their wife for granted??
Not everyone in this world, but most of men does it. They will never have time for their wife, no affection, love. They just use their wife for all the needs and never cares how do wives feel about it or about their any feelings.
Where as they have all wordly time for their beloveds (parents, siblings) and show lot of love, affection, talk to them for hours together etc.
Being a victim of this husband's attitude, just want to know , how to overcome this feeling and keep ourselves happy.
Smart Girl replied. Hi Girls,
Wheather u r married or still single, just go through a book called \" He's just not that into you\" . U'll get all responses for ur queries.
Also these men are hopeless. Yes they do take women for granted. And also this will happen ur entire life. Better try finding out a way which keeps u happy. Don't rely on these men for ur own happiness.
Amit replied. Sorry I entered this section, just to know/read some women, and what i find that even females are also like that most of the times. I remember, my wife she though remember my birthday but what's my birthday gift, something from archies and/or garment shop, whereas i plan for her gift atleast a month before and she ll always be satisfied but i hav never got that satisfaction in my life? I don know why? may be she was in luv wid sumbody befor marriage, which she told me later. I dont know if any other reason. can u tell me why is it so?
fd replied. hi
well i think this story is in every house, where we are taken for granted...i have a loving husband but then i dont get importance. i actually have to beg for him to love me.
Its not that he dosenot love me, but males dont understand that we are not starving for jwelllery and roses but some time of yours...where u jusst ask us, how are we doing?
This year on anniversary, i wrote a beautiful romantic letter, expecting, he would write me few lines too...but no reply. Then after long time, i wrote a letter telling my feelings and writing him that just call me some day...just for me.But that was royally ignored too.
But then, just few days back, we had a tiff and i told him, that all i ask is that u call me....u dont have 2 min for me? if thats the way i measure whether u love me or not? then it is....i made my point........and since past 2 days he dose call me.....i m glad!
Husbands are deaf...they need dhamaka,so that we are heard....otherwise, they are too busy with work...and other issues...that we are not considered.
And we are human being...right from morning, we get up....and our lifes revolve round them, as to what to cook, what will he like, taking care of him....i mean all the time, they are at the back of our minds....and we really feel sad and frustuated that not once....they even think about us.
WHY???? isnt this also a compromise that a female has to go through...assuming all the time that he loves us, but he dosenot show us.
I m not the kind of person to do that....my life is valuable....and if the whole life i m sacrificing my career for the family....i need respect and love and ATTENTION too!
So ladies, if people (ur parents, freinds) say that he loves u but not all men know how to express it &u need to be understanding.....then think once again.....We arenot expecting them to be shahrukh, salman , we had letgone our fantacy of mr.perfect the day we married.....so dont compromise.....make ur husbands understand....and get what is rightfully yours!!!!
SOME ATTENTION
Cheers......
Rose replied. Hi felt like u have written what i am going thru...i just dont know how to handle this....read Sweety's reply....yes....that is exactly what we can do and we should be doing....but would invite more views on this....For 3 and half yrs of my marriage with him....all the yrs, i have tried to make his birthdays, his special days - so special - give him a present, wish him...but on my birthday, he does not even wish me...once.....\" Happy Birthday\" ....Can anyone tell me how can i handle this.. All my special days, be it any festival, holi diwali, birthdays etc...end up passing by as even worse days than the normal days....Coz he just does not care....gives virtually no importance...I invite views on this please.....a stressed human being!
Sweety replied. Hi friend,
If u think abt it it hurts a lot lot.
Each and every incident
how they don't give impotance to us,
Not talking to us.,
Showing more affection on others .
Don't think abt them.
Divert ur mind and try to involve urselves in activites which u like.
Like browsing the net, Cooking, Reading books ,listening to music.
And don't forget to remind ur husband that u r longing for his love and affection in a good way vn he is in good mood.
2006-12-30
#1
Name: Smart Girl Subject: Hi
Hi Girls,
Wheather u r married or still single, just go through a book called \" He's just not that into you\" . U'll get all responses for ur queries.
Also these men are hopeless. Yes they do take women for granted. And also this will happen ur entire life. Better try finding out a way which keeps u happy. Don't rely on these men for ur own happiness.
2006-12-28
#2
Name: Amit Subject: Even some woman are also like that
Sorry I entered this section, just to know/read some women, and what i find that even females are also like that most of the times. I remember, my wife she though remember my birthday but what's my birthday gift, something from archies and/or garment shop, whereas i plan for her gift atleast a month before and she ll always be satisfied but i hav never got that satisfaction in my life? I don know why? may be she was in luv wid sumbody befor marriage, which she told me later. I dont know if any other reason. can u tell me why is it so?
2006-12-21
#3
Name: fd Subject: same problem
hi
well i think this story is in every house, where we are taken for granted...i have a loving husband but then i dont get importance. i actually have to beg for him to love me.
Its not that he dosenot love me, but males dont understand that we are not starving for jwelllery and roses but some time of yours...where u jusst ask us, how are we doing?
This year on anniversary, i wrote a beautiful romantic letter, expecting, he would write me few lines too...but no reply. Then after long time, i wrote a letter telling my feelings and writing him that just call me some day...just for me.But that was royally ignored too.
But then, just few days back, we had a tiff and i told him, that all i ask is that u call me....u dont have 2 min for me? if thats the way i measure whether u love me or not? then it is....i made my point........and since past 2 days he dose call me.....i m glad!
Husbands are deaf...they need dhamaka,so that we are heard....otherwise, they are too busy with work...and other issues...that we are not considered.
And we are human being...right from morning, we get up....and our lifes revolve round them, as to what to cook, what will he like, taking care of him....i mean all the time, they are at the back of our minds....and we really feel sad and frustuated that not once....they even think about us.
WHY???? isnt this also a compromise that a female has to go through...assuming all the time that he loves us, but he dosenot show us.
I m not the kind of person to do that....my life is valuable....and if the whole life i m sacrificing my career for the family....i need respect and love and ATTENTION too!
So ladies, if people (ur parents, freinds) say that he loves u but not all men know how to express it &u need to be understanding.....then think once again.....We arenot expecting them to be shahrukh, salman , we had letgone our fantacy of mr.perfect the day we married.....so dont compromise.....make ur husbands understand....and get what is rightfully yours!!!!
SOME ATTENTION
Cheers......
2006-12-21
#4
Name: Rose Subject: Sailing in the same boat!
Hi felt like u have written what i am going thru...i just dont know how to handle this....read Sweety's reply....yes....that is exactly what we can do and we should be doing....but would invite more views on this....For 3 and half yrs of my marriage with him....all the yrs, i have tried to make his birthdays, his special days - so special - give him a present, wish him...but on my birthday, he does not even wish me...once.....\" Happy Birthday\" ....Can anyone tell me how can i handle this.. All my special days, be it any festival, holi diwali, birthdays etc...end up passing by as even worse days than the normal days....Coz he just does not care....gives virtually no importance...I invite views on this please.....a stressed human being!
2006-12-21
#5
Name: HHH Subject: Same here
In 8 yrs of marriage, he never remembered our anniversery or my b'day.
If I ask him about this, he says anniversery or my b'day is like any other ordinary day for him. where as he remembers his brother's, sister's, mom's and dad's b'day and their anniverseries, he makes a note in his diary ,a reminder in his email and calls them and wishes them.
So I have stopped expecting anything from him. It is almost 2 weeks that we have spoken a word to each other. He seems to be very ignorant. We work all the weekdays and i expect some quality time during friday evenings or weekends, but he openes his bottle and starts drinking, out of this he will open a topic of his family and praise them that they are very great, his mom is like god etc and goes to bed making me cry. I am trying all my best to keep away from him and trying to divert myself by watching movies, cleaning house etc.
2006-12-21
#6
Name: Sweety Subject: Dont think abt it
Hi friend,
If u think abt it it hurts a lot lot.
Each and every incident
how they don't give impotance to us,
Not talking to us.,
Showing more affection on others .
Don't think abt them.
Divert ur mind and try to involve urselves in activites which u like.
Like browsing the net, Cooking, Reading books ,listening to music.
And don't forget to remind ur husband that u r longing for his love and affection in a good way vn he is in good mood.
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