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Dear Parents,
Recently I had a terrible experience with a creche called Baby' s Day Out wherein they hit my 4 year old son for a small reason that is passing motion in his pants.This chreche is located in Basvanagar behind HAL Helicopter division.My child has sufferred emotionally because of this matter and he is now so scared to pass motion.We are providing him lot of emotional support for him to come out of this shock and frightness.
I request all parents to please be aware of this chreche.This chreche is not even an officialy registered chreche or a day care.I think this is the main reason why they have no concern for kids in the chreche and ill-treated my kid as shabbily as she liked.
I would also request parents to come together and we create a forum exclusively for chreche related information in Bangalore like the do' s and dont' s while looking out for a chreche and how important it is for a chreche to be registered under the government law and the security factor and what actions can we take against chreche who treats kids in this ill manner.

When we put our kids to school we check 101 things first and most important being weather is it having the ICSE or CBSE curriculam.As a parent now I think we should also start checking weather a creche is registered under certain goverment body which inturn binds the creche to follow certain safety and security standards.

Making parents aware of these things will inturn help the parents to choose a safe place for their kids to be in during office hours.
Ahilya replied. Rashmi evryone understands ur emotions of a mother no-one can deny that v all are mothers but relax sit down & think calmly are u not going to far.People are hostile towards ur mail bcoz u r making them hostile by ur behavoiur by overfeeding them with this incidence .let bygones be bygones & move ahead & if u feel so much hurt why don' t u take printout of ur mail & paste in ur locality if ur sole intention is to use it as a methold of destroying the business & taking revenge. I am following ur post & what i can get other parents are happy by this creche .I think u need to relax & sit down & move ahead .Do not stretch things so far that u make a mockery of ur own self & people in place of sympathising or reading the post get irritated with u .In the end just think one thing u r deeply hurt bcoz u r the mother of the child but do not expect same from others as it is not their child .Just turn the mirror & ask urself had this been done to someone else' s child & that person wld have been overdosing the people with the incident wld u not as a reader got furious??Relax ! stop replied. We have almost bugged of reading the same message again and again..how many times will u do this , till u die or what? if ur hurt MIND UR BUSINESS dont wreck some bodies brain like this.if u feel they have done mistakes go take some action against y r u bothering people like me posting ur cases 1000 times.. stop replied. Rashmi,

Dont u have better work other then pasting your crap in this site.. U better spend more time with your son , he will be better..stop wasting ur time pasting the same old stuff again and again..

2008-04-19

Name: Ahilya
Subject:

Relax

Rashmi evryone understands ur emotions of a mother no-one can deny that v all are mothers but relax sit down & think calmly are u not going to far.People are hostile towards ur mail bcoz u r making them hostile by ur behavoiur by overfeeding them with this incidence .let bygones be bygones & move ahead & if u feel so much hurt why don' t u take printout of ur mail & paste in ur locality if ur sole intention is to use it as a methold of destroying the business & taking revenge. I am following ur post & what i can get other parents are happy by this creche .I think u need to relax & sit down & move ahead .Do not stretch things so far that u make a mockery of ur own self & people in place of sympathising or reading the post get irritated with u .In the end just think one thing u r deeply hurt bcoz u r the mother of the child but do not expect same from others as it is not their child .Just turn the mirror & ask urself had this been done to someone else' s child & that person wld have been overdosing the people with the incident wld u not as a reader got furious??Relax !

2008-04-18

Name: stop
Subject:

oh god

We have almost bugged of reading the same message again and again..how many times will u do this , till u die or what? if ur hurt MIND UR BUSINESS dont wreck some bodies brain like this.if u feel they have done mistakes go take some action against y r u bothering people like me posting ur cases 1000 times..

2008-04-19

Name: rashmi
Subject:

That´ s wonderful

Who is this ´ we have´ ??? If you are getting bugged, please stop reading, its my right as a member of this forum to keep informing all the parents who visit this site to be aware of Baby´ s Day Out.

You suggested that I take action...any recommendation on the action that i could take??? Your advise will be valuable as I am in the process of taking advise from quite a number of people on this issue.But i want to make sure that i take the right action. Please advise.

Are you posting my messages???no, its YOU reading and responding. If not interested, then stop reading and responding. Yes, as you said, until i die i will keep posting and letting parents know that Baby´ s day out is a dangerous place for kids to be in. I was cheated, with a sugar coated smile while dropping the child there. I was betrayed when i had to hear from my son that the same lady whom he used to call Paatti(Grandma) beat him on his head and shoulders for passing motion due to a bad stomach. I was shocked when the creche owner covered up the whole incident.

Let me recap. The day the incident happened, my husband picked up the child in the evening, the creche owner was about to complain to him like, ´ you know what your child did today?´ When my husband insisted on knowing, she said it is between my child and ´ Patti´ . But my husband noticed the terrified look in some of the maids face. Later when my husband asked my child, he narrated what happened.

We pulled out our child the next day itself, but did not speak with her, knowing very well how vehemently she will deny it. 10 days after the incident, she called up my husband and told, ´ sorry for whatever has happened to you and your child, stop hurting me´ Now I read this as ´ stop hurting my business´ . As the call came after I started posting the incident in this site. Now, if she is innocent, why did she apologise and let her son speak to my husband to ´ advise´ my husband that ´ kids some times lie´ ?

I have written a pretty long one. But in case some one is not interested in, they can stop reading. I as a parent do not want any child to go through what my son has gone through. It hurts all the more when it is from some one on whom we used to have lots of trust and respect. This lady betrayed our trust and respect. This lady hurt my child, she needs to own up and be sorry for that. And being sorry is bye a formal call to say sorry, but advising her people to stay away from the threats in this forum. The creche owner has all the right to take legal action against anyone who tries to defame her without valid reason. But if she is at fault, she better be sorry.

2008-04-18

Name: stop
Subject:

stop this!!!

Rashmi,

Dont u have better work other then pasting your crap in this site.. U better spend more time with your son , he will be better..stop wasting ur time pasting the same old stuff again and again..

2008-04-18

Name: rashmi
Subject:

Day Care Centre Bangalore Beware

Dont YOU have better work other than abusing a parent and child who are hurt..

U better mind your business, I will take care of my son.

Stop wasting YOUR time (for what ever reasons) trying to cover up the Creche owner´ s BIG mistake for which she needs to own up and face the consequences. The owner of Baby´ s Day Out in Bangalore- Basavanagar area has committed a BIG crime and she needs to own up and apologise.

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