Hi everybody..

Hope everybody is having fun with their little ones..hope everyone is doing fine..Ritu glad to see ur updates.
Anyone feel we have become more mommy than wife now? I come home from work and its anu time..for both of us till she sleeps, then its preparing for next day..praveen helps too and we do enjoy time together with anu too..just was wondering how different life was before and hoping we don't forget to enjoy later on too. come to think of it..my mom and dad were also very loving but hardly saw them sit alone having fun..though they showed in other ways gifts/small incidents. DO u guys think about all this?
WOuld love to know everybody about urself..most of friends here know at times more than even my sister knows back home..so hope no one minds if i can share and talk of other topics besides anu too. if not a preference do let me know..i never filter my thots..what i think is what i right..so not showing off or anything..just the way i am.Thanks for everything..for almost 2 years of sharing.
have a nice day
Radhika Ritu replied. Its so true . My lil one has become my world . I get so exhausted keeping up with this toddler , just tires me out . Have no energy left for anyone .
But I enjoy it ..... so what to do ?
take Care
Ritu
kalyani replied. Hi,

My life has changed a lot after sasmeta was born.I have become more matured now.I think that only after giving birth to sas my life is having a meaning.But i miss the days before having her.The closeness i had with my hubby is all gone now.Now i hardly find time to sit with him and talk.Also motherhood has given me wonderful friends like u guys to share my feelings.Radhika its a nice idea to talk about other topics other than our kids.Will love to do it.Okay guys take care and keep in touch.

love u all
kals

love from
kals Nick replied. Hi Radhika
I agree with u.Now our kids have our undivided attention.But frankly I don't think it bothers my husband.Before we had a kid he would sit 24*7 in front of PC.Now also he does that :-) so maybe for him its better.I don't bug him now since I have someone else to play with now..:-)

But on a serious note you are right.After we become mothers everything changes and I feel our life isn't ours anymore .

And thanks for keeping posting the messages.U are the only one keeping this board alive.By the way did u know that there is another yahoo group where most people have joined and that is very active.If anyone wants I can ask the moderator to send invites to u all.I am also a member there.

Sushmita
Vidhya replied. Hi Radhika,,....
You are so true.. Actually even I am with Anagha most of the times , but i still miss the fun i use dto have with Prasad. Its like never the right time. he tells me you are with her most of the time , no time for me, but i know for sure he very well understands the situation. but it would be great if we get more time with each other, sometimes i feel with just one child things are so busy, what would happen with two.
I must say , you are just great.. I come to this site almost every other day just to read ,but am too tired to write. at times i feel u are doingf such a great job trying to solve everybody'd pbms and u help everyone in whatever way u can.. u r just a wonderful person....i think october moms is running so good mainly because we have u....
keep writing more and we will all enjoy.
i promise i will try to write more now on instead of just being a silent listener or reader.

take care
vidhya Radhika replied. \";what i think is what i right\"; na...(weird) what i think is what i write..i am dslexic i think :)