My daughter who is 10 yrs old is good at studies, also excel well in writing, reciting poems, singing and dance. But she always hesitate to participate in Stage programmes. Neither does she go out and join her friends in the neighbourhood. She is too shy. Please help me in this.
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My daughter who is 10 yrs old is good at studies, also excel well in writing, reciting poems, singing and dance. But she always hesitate to participate in Stage programmes. Neither does she go out and join her friends in the neighbourhood. She is too shy. Please help me in this.
kavita replied. hello divya,
its normal behaviour of kids, you dont take serious thing, so just try to keep her busy in some activities, like gymnasium, swimming, so there may be she will make some friends, and then mingle with them.
roshan replied. hello divya,
i thought you took unnecessary stress about your daughter, and you should give her own space, she will try to speak and definitley she will be successful in that try, so you just keep calm yourself.
surya replied. hello divya,
there are so many ways to help you kids get over come from this situation and on this stage of life, encourgae her to take part in different activities like dance drama all this.
deva replied. hello divya,
you daughter is so small now, and you should try and work on her to boost her speaking something, and you can stand her in front of mirror and try to boost her, it will be helpful for her.
golu replied. hello divya
your daughter is shy perosn, and shy nature is not bad at all, so dont worry about this things, as per time gone she will definitely start to talk with everyone.
meena replied. hello divya
your daughter is very capable and strong in other activities like drawing, there is nothing wrong in being shy, so you try to boost her everytime, tell her that she can do everything.
omkara replied. hello divya,
try to make your daughter speak at home in front of mirror, it will be improve her confidence and your support give her strengh in front of other people,
mistry replied. hello divya,
see your daughter positive sides, she is blessed with so many positive and good things, there is only need to face fear of talk to other peoson, let remove that everything will be fine.
rechal replied. hello divya,
all kids are not ready to expose or speak with everyone easily, they need to boost for events and support her for events, try to give time to make friends, and move her with out for sometime.
kashi replied. hello divya,
some people will feel shy in front of unknown people, and it will start from childhood only, make her to participate in all activities and events, she will win or loss no matter.
rachana replied. hello divya,
there are many ways that you can help you kid get over from this stage of life, encourage her to take part in different types of activities, and always give strong support to her.
purvi replied. hello divya,
try to make her take part in activities, and keep boosting her in all things, like other hobbies, like dancing and singing, she would definitely come out from all this.
krishana replied. hello divya,
if your daughter dont like to go outside with friends, then its ok its not bad thing at all, she would be eventually get over from this stage of darkness of fear,
priyanka replied. hello divya
your daughter is so smart and talented, there is small need of little confidence and encourgement, try to teach her make believe on yourself, and boost her for other activities.
suhaas replied. hello divya,
try to keep your daughter happy and give her maximum time, to communicate with other person in other possible way, but keep in mind do not force her to do that, she will be fine soon with time.
nitibha replied. hello divya,
i suggest you that, you should not worry about this not at all, if your daughter is shy, give her some time to adjust different people and after some time whe will try to mix up with other people too.
kamal replied. hello divya,
try to give her own space, dont force her to do anything, try to join her in some activity, and she will be in contact with other friends and family member.
Meera replied. Hi Divya, see if you can put her in a any of the activities where she can get along with other kids and people. This will totally make her extrovert within a span of time and also take away her shyness.
neha replied. hey divya i think you should not worry about her shyness let her be the way she wants to be. She might open up a bit after maybe few years let her enjoy her space currently. Due to her shyness she might not be participating in stage fucntions but dont force her to do it if shes uncomfortable.
Jayantipriya replied. Hi Divya, try to keep her happy and give her some time to understand things. Do not force her and let her do what she likes to do in her life. She will be fine with time so do not worry.
2017-04-21
#41
Name: kavita Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya,
its normal behaviour of kids, you dont take serious thing, so just try to keep her busy in some activities, like gymnasium, swimming, so there may be she will make some friends, and then mingle with them.
2017-02-20
#42
Name: roshan Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya,
i thought you took unnecessary stress about your daughter, and you should give her own space, she will try to speak and definitley she will be successful in that try, so you just keep calm yourself.
2017-02-20
#43
Name: surya Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya,
there are so many ways to help you kids get over come from this situation and on this stage of life, encourgae her to take part in different activities like dance drama all this.
2017-02-20
#44
Name: deva Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya,
you daughter is so small now, and you should try and work on her to boost her speaking something, and you can stand her in front of mirror and try to boost her, it will be helpful for her.
2016-11-05
#45
Name: golu Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya
your daughter is shy perosn, and shy nature is not bad at all, so dont worry about this things, as per time gone she will definitely start to talk with everyone.
2016-11-05
#46
Name: meena Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya
your daughter is very capable and strong in other activities like drawing, there is nothing wrong in being shy, so you try to boost her everytime, tell her that she can do everything.
2016-11-05
#47
Name: omkara Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya,
try to make your daughter speak at home in front of mirror, it will be improve her confidence and your support give her strengh in front of other people,
2016-11-05
#48
Name: mistry Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya,
see your daughter positive sides, she is blessed with so many positive and good things, there is only need to face fear of talk to other peoson, let remove that everything will be fine.
2016-11-05
#49
Name: rechal Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya,
all kids are not ready to expose or speak with everyone easily, they need to boost for events and support her for events, try to give time to make friends, and move her with out for sometime.
2016-11-05
#50
Name: kashi Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya,
some people will feel shy in front of unknown people, and it will start from childhood only, make her to participate in all activities and events, she will win or loss no matter.
2016-11-05
#51
Name: rachana Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya,
there are many ways that you can help you kid get over from this stage of life, encourage her to take part in different types of activities, and always give strong support to her.
2016-11-05
#52
Name: purvi Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya,
try to make her take part in activities, and keep boosting her in all things, like other hobbies, like dancing and singing, she would definitely come out from all this.
2016-11-05
#53
Name: krishana Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya,
if your daughter dont like to go outside with friends, then its ok its not bad thing at all, she would be eventually get over from this stage of darkness of fear,
2016-11-05
#54
Name: priyanka Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya
your daughter is so smart and talented, there is small need of little confidence and encourgement, try to teach her make believe on yourself, and boost her for other activities.
2016-11-05
#55
Name: suhaas Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya,
try to keep your daughter happy and give her maximum time, to communicate with other person in other possible way, but keep in mind do not force her to do that, she will be fine soon with time.
2016-11-05
#56
Name: nitibha Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya,
i suggest you that, you should not worry about this not at all, if your daughter is shy, give her some time to adjust different people and after some time whe will try to mix up with other people too.
2016-11-04
#57
Name: kamal Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hello divya,
try to give her own space, dont force her to do anything, try to join her in some activity, and she will be in contact with other friends and family member.
2016-10-06
#58
Name: Meera Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hi Divya, see if you can put her in a any of the activities where she can get along with other kids and people. This will totally make her extrovert within a span of time and also take away her shyness.
2016-10-01
#59
Name: neha Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
hey divya i think you should not worry about her shyness let her be the way she wants to be. She might open up a bit after maybe few years let her enjoy her space currently. Due to her shyness she might not be participating in stage fucntions but dont force her to do it if shes uncomfortable.
2016-09-27
#60
Name: Jayantipriya Subject: RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hi Divya, try to keep her happy and give her some time to understand things. Do not force her and let her do what she likes to do in her life. She will be fine with time so do not worry.
Parents can help their children expand their boundaries while still respecting their nature by using concrete strategies to deal with stressful social situations... - neha [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hello dear this is really nothing to worry as its very common and you should not take this matter as a big concern as kids at this age are normally shy and they do not like meeting new people infact they want only their friends and all with them.... - Anita [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
According to me you should take your child to a counselor and ask her what is the exact problem as this is not common and you should get into it as soon as possible and understand the real reason behind the same, please do not ignore this its a request.... - Anaida [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hello madam this is really sad to see but then please speak to your daughter and ask her why is she doing like this and what is the exact problem because there might be chances that your daughter is hiding something from you and you should think on he same.... - Vijay [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hello Divya please do not leave this matter as it should be dealt immediately and you should not leave this like this, please get this sorted out as soon as possible and you should also know one thing that this is very rare to see in kids nowadays... - Vinay [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hey dear according to me its completely fine and you need not to worry so much as she is very young and as time passes she will develop this in her, please do not worry and also do not force her also for the same as this is will really be a bad thing to do.... - Anita [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hi dear i can understand this issue as the same was the case with my son and till the age of 14 he was like this then someone told me to put him in personality development course and after doing so there was a complete change in his body language and he was totally different.... - Anaida [View Message]
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