My son who is 6 yrs old does not mingle with his friends and is very shy? He does not participate in any programmes too. What to do?
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My son who is 6 yrs old does not mingle with his friends and is very shy? He does not participate in any programmes too. What to do?
Sneha replied. Hi Snisha, give your kid some time he will surely change. He is quite small now so wait he will surely start getting active with time. Try to send him to play with kids so that he mingles with people.
chitra replied. hello snisha,
your son is just 9 year old now, so give him some time to mix up with other girls and boys of his age, and after some time he will be make good friend but dont force him for that.
trupti replied. hello snisha,
my freinds so is also so shy, when he meet me till now, he is not come front of me, she hide back to my friend and after some time, he mix up and then talk freely with me. its common thing now a days.
rudrajit replied. hello snisha,
dont worry about this small issue, its a very common problem in kids, because our families now became a small and nuclear family, so its obious kid feel not that much comfortable with unknown people.
pramodini replied. hello,
you are his mother and no other person better to be first best friend except mother of kid, so try to maintain good and best friendship with him, be his bestiee and see changes in him.
tanuja replied. hello snisha,
use some trick in case of your son shyness leave him for one day with his friends, then see how he react, but you keep him watching but keep yourself away from him. it will work.
kaushi replied. hi snisha,
my son also having same problem, till now he is not mix up with anyone, and feel shy to talk with friends too, when i was introduce him , he try to hide behind me.
suvidha replied. hi snishna,
try to boost him to take part in cultural activities like stage performance, not in solo but atleast boost him to participate in group performance.
twinkle replied. first thing snisha don't force him to speak with other kids, it will react opposite direction may be he will be afraid from this nature, so try to understand his mind stage, and act that per stage.
kunal replied. hello,
snisha my suggestion for you, on holidays you can invite his friends and keep small party, so he will feel happy and may be he will be interact with his friends more.
kartik replied. hello,
snisha i suggest you to join him some activity classes like dance class or some extra music classes in this atmosphere he will be relax and make friends too.
rekha replied. hello snisha,
you should discuss with his school teacher, and convence him to participate him any school activity or stage performance, so he will come over his shyness nature.
urvi replied. hi,
you should try to develope good friendship and then try to know his exact problem of shyness, then only you should know whats the reason of his shyness, and then solve his problem.
kritika replied. hi snisha,
now a days it is very common problem for all parents, may be because of kids are not free with people with whome they stay in school and class, thats a reason they feel shy to talk with them.
yogita replied. hello,
normaly small kids shy till they face the unknown and known people, once they talk with people the lost fear and very innocentely talk with every one so just keep patience and he will definately improove.
manjusha replied. hello snisha,
your son is just 9 year old so it will take some time to mingle with other friends and family, you try to put efforts too boost him to make friends, and try to give him more time.
latika replied. hello snisha,
it is not a big problem there is so many people who have friends that can counted on fingers, but slowly they make habit to talk with other friends and family friends so problem solve in some time.
komal replied. hi,
there is chances of fear instead of shyness, so many kids when they feel uncomfortable that time they avoid to talk with friends and family too. so dont worry at all.
neeraja replied. hello,
dont take it seriousely but handle it with carefully like ask your kid that is he afraid with anything or he saw something that he is afraid for those things and may be that's why he keep quite. just try to ask your kid.
rupkala replied. hello,
your kid is now so small so its obious for her to not mix up with each and every friend of class so give time as time passsed he grows up definately he will be used to people around him and his shyness become less.
2016-09-26
#61
Name: Sneha Subject: RE:Shy Kids
Hi Snisha, give your kid some time he will surely change. He is quite small now so wait he will surely start getting active with time. Try to send him to play with kids so that he mingles with people.
2016-09-20
#62
Name: chitra Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
your son is just 9 year old now, so give him some time to mix up with other girls and boys of his age, and after some time he will be make good friend but dont force him for that.
2016-09-20
#63
Name: trupti Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
my freinds so is also so shy, when he meet me till now, he is not come front of me, she hide back to my friend and after some time, he mix up and then talk freely with me. its common thing now a days.
2016-09-20
#64
Name: rudrajit Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
dont worry about this small issue, its a very common problem in kids, because our families now became a small and nuclear family, so its obious kid feel not that much comfortable with unknown people.
2016-09-20
#65
Name: pramodini Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello,
you are his mother and no other person better to be first best friend except mother of kid, so try to maintain good and best friendship with him, be his bestiee and see changes in him.
2016-09-20
#66
Name: tanuja Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
use some trick in case of your son shyness leave him for one day with his friends, then see how he react, but you keep him watching but keep yourself away from him. it will work.
2016-09-20
#67
Name: kaushi Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hi snisha,
my son also having same problem, till now he is not mix up with anyone, and feel shy to talk with friends too, when i was introduce him , he try to hide behind me.
2016-09-20
#68
Name: suvidha Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hi snishna,
try to boost him to take part in cultural activities like stage performance, not in solo but atleast boost him to participate in group performance.
2016-09-17
#69
Name: twinkle Subject: RE:Shy Kids
first thing snisha don't force him to speak with other kids, it will react opposite direction may be he will be afraid from this nature, so try to understand his mind stage, and act that per stage.
2016-09-17
#70
Name: kunal Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello,
snisha my suggestion for you, on holidays you can invite his friends and keep small party, so he will feel happy and may be he will be interact with his friends more.
2016-09-17
#71
Name: kartik Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello,
snisha i suggest you to join him some activity classes like dance class or some extra music classes in this atmosphere he will be relax and make friends too.
2016-09-17
#72
Name: rekha Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
you should discuss with his school teacher, and convence him to participate him any school activity or stage performance, so he will come over his shyness nature.
2016-09-17
#73
Name: urvi Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hi,
you should try to develope good friendship and then try to know his exact problem of shyness, then only you should know whats the reason of his shyness, and then solve his problem.
2016-09-17
#74
Name: kritika Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hi snisha,
now a days it is very common problem for all parents, may be because of kids are not free with people with whome they stay in school and class, thats a reason they feel shy to talk with them.
2016-09-17
#75
Name: yogita Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello,
normaly small kids shy till they face the unknown and known people, once they talk with people the lost fear and very innocentely talk with every one so just keep patience and he will definately improove.
2016-09-17
#76
Name: manjusha Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
your son is just 9 year old so it will take some time to mingle with other friends and family, you try to put efforts too boost him to make friends, and try to give him more time.
2016-09-17
#77
Name: latika Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
it is not a big problem there is so many people who have friends that can counted on fingers, but slowly they make habit to talk with other friends and family friends so problem solve in some time.
2016-09-17
#78
Name: komal Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hi,
there is chances of fear instead of shyness, so many kids when they feel uncomfortable that time they avoid to talk with friends and family too. so dont worry at all.
2016-09-17
#79
Name: neeraja Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello,
dont take it seriousely but handle it with carefully like ask your kid that is he afraid with anything or he saw something that he is afraid for those things and may be that's why he keep quite. just try to ask your kid.
2016-09-17
#80
Name: rupkala Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello,
your kid is now so small so its obious for her to not mix up with each and every friend of class so give time as time passsed he grows up definately he will be used to people around him and his shyness become less.
Parents can help their children expand their boundaries while still respecting their nature by using concrete strategies to deal with stressful social situations... - neha [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hello dear this is really nothing to worry as its very common and you should not take this matter as a big concern as kids at this age are normally shy and they do not like meeting new people infact they want only their friends and all with them.... - Anita [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
According to me you should take your child to a counselor and ask her what is the exact problem as this is not common and you should get into it as soon as possible and understand the real reason behind the same, please do not ignore this its a request.... - Anaida [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hello madam this is really sad to see but then please speak to your daughter and ask her why is she doing like this and what is the exact problem because there might be chances that your daughter is hiding something from you and you should think on he same.... - Vijay [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hello Divya please do not leave this matter as it should be dealt immediately and you should not leave this like this, please get this sorted out as soon as possible and you should also know one thing that this is very rare to see in kids nowadays... - Vinay [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hey dear according to me its completely fine and you need not to worry so much as she is very young and as time passes she will develop this in her, please do not worry and also do not force her also for the same as this is will really be a bad thing to do.... - Anita [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hi dear i can understand this issue as the same was the case with my son and till the age of 14 he was like this then someone told me to put him in personality development course and after doing so there was a complete change in his body language and he was totally different.... - Anaida [View Message]
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