My son who is 6 yrs old does not mingle with his friends and is very shy? He does not participate in any programmes too. What to do?
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My son who is 6 yrs old does not mingle with his friends and is very shy? He does not participate in any programmes too. What to do?
jyoti replied. hello snisha,
this is very common issue, faced by every parents and you have to give time to your child to make him feel good and he needs to go out and engage in other activities also.
varsha replied. hello snisha,
handle this problem very seriousely and then only you can find out the solution and you have too, put some efforts to make strong bonding with you son, and try to tell him make friend.
bhoomi replied. hello snisha,
its common in kids, in this age as they tend to be shy meeting new people so be calm and he grown up he automatically start with meeting with other kids, and that time you fell not worry.
gaytri replied. hello snisha,
try to make friendship with him, and you try to get involve him in other activities also, take admission in dance class or any singing classes, as a activity part he may be mingle with other kids.
prachi replied. hello srisha,
dont force to your kid to mingle with other kids, its not easy to force them and they are agree to get mix up with them, so you should keep some patience and then see the result.
kiran replied. hello snisha,
dont force your son for any activity, if he feel that time definitely he will show you interest in this things, and yes for certain age he feel shy but afterwards he is ok with other friends.
chaya replied. hello snisha,
you should your son in some activity, like take admission for any activity like singing classes in musical instrument classes etc, so it will be helpful for you and for him also.
deepak replied. hello snisha,
you try to make friendship with your son, so he feel not shy in front of other people, its common issue with boys specially with boys, they feel shy in front of other girls.
Pooja replied. Try to figure it out the main reason of the shyness whether its because of some fear or something else.
Nisha replied. Its common in kids with this age as they tend to be shy meeting new people so be calm as he grows old he will automatically not feel shy to meet new people and all.
Monika replied. Relax and dont worry just make sure you dont force him to do anything as this will make him more uncomfortable and will lead to more shyness in him.
Ankita replied. Hi this is a very common issue faced by mothers its just that you have to give time to your child make him feel that he needs to go out and engage in activities.
anjinkya replied. hello snisha,
handle this problem very seriousely and then only you can find out exact solution of that problem, otherwise your all efforts gone waste, so handle carefully and try to be his best friend.
ranjeet replied. hello snisha,
try to find out there is shyness behind or any fear in his mind, try to communicate with him in very nice way and then only you can solve his issue in proper way.
naresh replied. hello snisha,
normaly when small kids, meet some stranger like friend of mom and dad , first they react with smile or ran away, or hide behind parents, its a common thing give him time in that.
linta replied. hello snisha,
dont force him to speak with other kids, may be he will be afraid and never spoke with any one freely, so dont force him, try to teach him in very simple and sweet way.
bunty replied. hello snisha,
try to make his best friend, give him as possible more time, and try to understand change in his behaviour, and try to leave him some friends of her, and watch him.
vikrant replied. hello snisha,
it is very common problems in kids, first they try to know the person and then only then mingle with that person or friends, so it will be solve sure.
shaurya replied. hello srisha,
dont worry its not a big problem, my daughter also doing same things, when some unknown friend of mine come in front of her and say hello she try to hide behind me.
nitesh replied. hello snisha,
try to give some more time to him, and importantely boost him to mix up with other friends like his society friends, school friends, garden friends, you can see some improvement in him.
2017-03-10
#41
Name: jyoti Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
this is very common issue, faced by every parents and you have to give time to your child to make him feel good and he needs to go out and engage in other activities also.
2017-03-10
#42
Name: varsha Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
handle this problem very seriousely and then only you can find out the solution and you have too, put some efforts to make strong bonding with you son, and try to tell him make friend.
2017-03-10
#43
Name: bhoomi Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
its common in kids, in this age as they tend to be shy meeting new people so be calm and he grown up he automatically start with meeting with other kids, and that time you fell not worry.
2017-03-10
#44
Name: gaytri Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
try to make friendship with him, and you try to get involve him in other activities also, take admission in dance class or any singing classes, as a activity part he may be mingle with other kids.
2017-03-10
#45
Name: prachi Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello srisha,
dont force to your kid to mingle with other kids, its not easy to force them and they are agree to get mix up with them, so you should keep some patience and then see the result.
2017-02-15
#46
Name: kiran Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
dont force your son for any activity, if he feel that time definitely he will show you interest in this things, and yes for certain age he feel shy but afterwards he is ok with other friends.
2017-02-15
#47
Name: chaya Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
you should your son in some activity, like take admission for any activity like singing classes in musical instrument classes etc, so it will be helpful for you and for him also.
2017-02-15
#48
Name: deepak Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
you try to make friendship with your son, so he feel not shy in front of other people, its common issue with boys specially with boys, they feel shy in front of other girls.
2017-01-28
#49
Name: Pooja Subject: RE:Shy Kids
Try to figure it out the main reason of the shyness whether its because of some fear or something else.
2017-01-25
#50
Name: Nisha Subject: RE:Shy Kids
Its common in kids with this age as they tend to be shy meeting new people so be calm as he grows old he will automatically not feel shy to meet new people and all.
2017-01-25
#51
Name: Monika Subject: RE:Shy Kids
Relax and dont worry just make sure you dont force him to do anything as this will make him more uncomfortable and will lead to more shyness in him.
2017-01-25
#52
Name: Ankita Subject: RE:Shy Kids
Hi this is a very common issue faced by mothers its just that you have to give time to your child make him feel that he needs to go out and engage in activities.
2016-10-28
#53
Name: anjinkya Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
handle this problem very seriousely and then only you can find out exact solution of that problem, otherwise your all efforts gone waste, so handle carefully and try to be his best friend.
2016-10-28
#54
Name: ranjeet Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
try to find out there is shyness behind or any fear in his mind, try to communicate with him in very nice way and then only you can solve his issue in proper way.
2016-10-28
#55
Name: naresh Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
normaly when small kids, meet some stranger like friend of mom and dad , first they react with smile or ran away, or hide behind parents, its a common thing give him time in that.
2016-10-28
#56
Name: linta Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
dont force him to speak with other kids, may be he will be afraid and never spoke with any one freely, so dont force him, try to teach him in very simple and sweet way.
2016-10-28
#57
Name: bunty Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
try to make his best friend, give him as possible more time, and try to understand change in his behaviour, and try to leave him some friends of her, and watch him.
2016-10-28
#58
Name: vikrant Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
it is very common problems in kids, first they try to know the person and then only then mingle with that person or friends, so it will be solve sure.
2016-10-28
#59
Name: shaurya Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello srisha,
dont worry its not a big problem, my daughter also doing same things, when some unknown friend of mine come in front of her and say hello she try to hide behind me.
2016-10-28
#60
Name: nitesh Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
try to give some more time to him, and importantely boost him to mix up with other friends like his society friends, school friends, garden friends, you can see some improvement in him.
Parents can help their children expand their boundaries while still respecting their nature by using concrete strategies to deal with stressful social situations... - neha [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hello dear this is really nothing to worry as its very common and you should not take this matter as a big concern as kids at this age are normally shy and they do not like meeting new people infact they want only their friends and all with them.... - Anita [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
According to me you should take your child to a counselor and ask her what is the exact problem as this is not common and you should get into it as soon as possible and understand the real reason behind the same, please do not ignore this its a request.... - Anaida [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hello madam this is really sad to see but then please speak to your daughter and ask her why is she doing like this and what is the exact problem because there might be chances that your daughter is hiding something from you and you should think on he same.... - Vijay [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hello Divya please do not leave this matter as it should be dealt immediately and you should not leave this like this, please get this sorted out as soon as possible and you should also know one thing that this is very rare to see in kids nowadays... - Vinay [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hey dear according to me its completely fine and you need not to worry so much as she is very young and as time passes she will develop this in her, please do not worry and also do not force her also for the same as this is will really be a bad thing to do.... - Anita [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hi dear i can understand this issue as the same was the case with my son and till the age of 14 he was like this then someone told me to put him in personality development course and after doing so there was a complete change in his body language and he was totally different.... - Anaida [View Message]
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