My son who is 6 yrs old does not mingle with his friends and is very shy? He does not participate in any programmes too. What to do?
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My son who is 6 yrs old does not mingle with his friends and is very shy? He does not participate in any programmes too. What to do?
bhuvnesh replied. hello snisha,
its very common issue dont make it big issue, every kid going through same situation so you cant force to them on that, so if you want that your kid should mingle with other kids, you should keep some patience.
niyati replied. hello snisha,
its very common problem you face in your life and dont try to force to your son to mingling with other friends, so it will be good for him, give some time to him, and dont force him for anything.
indira replied. hello snisha,
your son age is only 6 years old give him some time and then see how he improve from his habit, and start mingling with other friends too, so dont force him now to mingling with other friends.
manas replied. hello snisha,
you try to tell her that do friendship with other kids and that is good thing, tell her the benefits of talking with other person people friends, and you should try to understand whats going on his mind.
ritika replied. hello snisha,
you should ask him when he feel alone, and sit aside in some corner, you should put efforts to boost him to play in friends, so it will give confidence and he start playing with them.
latika replied. hello snisha,
you should ask him why he sit so quite and thats why he is not make friends so it will be helpful for you, also you can check him if he make new friends, and try to mingling with them.
dipti replied. hello snisha,
you dont worry, give some time to your kid that he try to mingle with his other friends too, so it will be good for him,
children's and children's are talkative at home when they are in comfort zone.
dipti replied. hello snisha,
you are his first friend you should make strong bonding with your son, and then tell him the about make new friends and what is fun to make friends, and other things to so he will be feel good.
aradhya replied. hello snisha,
try to make good and best friendship with your son, and boost him to make friends, and tell them its good habit to make new friends, give him your time and then see changes in him.
amit replied. hello snisha,
you dont worry, its not big problem about your kid, so if you give so much important to this thing then dont do this, give him his time and then see the positive change in him.
fatima replied. hello snisha,
its common in kids but after some age this problem got sort out, and parents also feel so safe and secured about the kid future and parents should boost to kids to make friends.
harsh replied. hello snisha,
this is very common issue, and faced to many parents, children's are talkative in front of parents only otherwise in front of other person they feel shy and not talking with other guy.
arijit replied. hello snisha,
you should ask him why he sit so quite and why he is not make friends so it will be helpful for you, also you can check him if he make new friends then how he react that time.
kimya replied. hello snisha,
try to find out the reason behind his shyness, and then try to solve the reason, as the reason sorted out, he start mingling with other friends, and boost him to talk with other friends.
ajit replied. hello snisha,
dont apply force or any pressure on him, just take to his time, and then slowly as he grown up, you can see the chanages in him, and he definitely start mingling with his other friends.
kirti replied. hello snisha,
you try to tell her that do friendship with other kids and that is good things, tell her the benefits of talking with other person people friends, and slowly slowly try to read her mind.
abhishek replied. hello snisha,
i m the mother suffer from same situation, my 8 years old daughter is so shy, she doesn't have single friend in school and at home she is so much talkative in front of me only.
archita replied. hello snisha,
your son is just now 6 years old, so dont force him for do anything you should give him some time, and then only you can see the changes in him, till then dont try to use power on him.
sasmit replied. hello snisha,
its very common problem face by kids and parents also, dont worry its not a big problem, and my friend son also doing same thing, when some unknown friend of her come in front of him he feel very shy.
ganga replied. hello snisha,
try to find out there is shyness behind or any other fear in your kids mind, because many times its just not shyness may be he is afraid from something and thats why he prefer to keep quite and dont mix up with other friends
2017-08-09
#21
Name: bhuvnesh Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
its very common issue dont make it big issue, every kid going through same situation so you cant force to them on that, so if you want that your kid should mingle with other kids, you should keep some patience.
2017-08-09
#22
Name: niyati Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
its very common problem you face in your life and dont try to force to your son to mingling with other friends, so it will be good for him, give some time to him, and dont force him for anything.
2017-08-09
#23
Name: indira Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
your son age is only 6 years old give him some time and then see how he improve from his habit, and start mingling with other friends too, so dont force him now to mingling with other friends.
2017-08-09
#24
Name: manas Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
you try to tell her that do friendship with other kids and that is good thing, tell her the benefits of talking with other person people friends, and you should try to understand whats going on his mind.
2017-08-09
#25
Name: ritika Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
you should ask him when he feel alone, and sit aside in some corner, you should put efforts to boost him to play in friends, so it will give confidence and he start playing with them.
2017-08-09
#26
Name: latika Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
you should ask him why he sit so quite and thats why he is not make friends so it will be helpful for you, also you can check him if he make new friends, and try to mingling with them.
2017-08-09
#27
Name: dipti Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
you dont worry, give some time to your kid that he try to mingle with his other friends too, so it will be good for him,
children's and children's are talkative at home when they are in comfort zone.
2017-08-09
#28
Name: dipti Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
you are his first friend you should make strong bonding with your son, and then tell him the about make new friends and what is fun to make friends, and other things to so he will be feel good.
2017-07-04
#29
Name: aradhya Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
try to make good and best friendship with your son, and boost him to make friends, and tell them its good habit to make new friends, give him your time and then see changes in him.
2017-06-10
#30
Name: amit Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
you dont worry, its not big problem about your kid, so if you give so much important to this thing then dont do this, give him his time and then see the positive change in him.
2017-06-10
#31
Name: fatima Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
its common in kids but after some age this problem got sort out, and parents also feel so safe and secured about the kid future and parents should boost to kids to make friends.
2017-06-10
#32
Name: harsh Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
this is very common issue, and faced to many parents, children's are talkative in front of parents only otherwise in front of other person they feel shy and not talking with other guy.
2017-06-10
#33
Name: arijit Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
you should ask him why he sit so quite and why he is not make friends so it will be helpful for you, also you can check him if he make new friends then how he react that time.
2017-06-10
#34
Name: kimya Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
try to find out the reason behind his shyness, and then try to solve the reason, as the reason sorted out, he start mingling with other friends, and boost him to talk with other friends.
2017-06-10
#35
Name: ajit Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
dont apply force or any pressure on him, just take to his time, and then slowly as he grown up, you can see the chanages in him, and he definitely start mingling with his other friends.
2017-06-10
#36
Name: kirti Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
you try to tell her that do friendship with other kids and that is good things, tell her the benefits of talking with other person people friends, and slowly slowly try to read her mind.
2017-06-10
#37
Name: abhishek Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
i m the mother suffer from same situation, my 8 years old daughter is so shy, she doesn't have single friend in school and at home she is so much talkative in front of me only.
2017-06-10
#38
Name: archita Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
your son is just now 6 years old, so dont force him for do anything you should give him some time, and then only you can see the changes in him, till then dont try to use power on him.
2017-03-10
#39
Name: sasmit Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
its very common problem face by kids and parents also, dont worry its not a big problem, and my friend son also doing same thing, when some unknown friend of her come in front of him he feel very shy.
2017-03-10
#40
Name: ganga Subject: RE:Shy Kids
hello snisha,
try to find out there is shyness behind or any other fear in your kids mind, because many times its just not shyness may be he is afraid from something and thats why he prefer to keep quite and dont mix up with other friends
Parents can help their children expand their boundaries while still respecting their nature by using concrete strategies to deal with stressful social situations... - neha [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hello dear this is really nothing to worry as its very common and you should not take this matter as a big concern as kids at this age are normally shy and they do not like meeting new people infact they want only their friends and all with them.... - Anita [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
According to me you should take your child to a counselor and ask her what is the exact problem as this is not common and you should get into it as soon as possible and understand the real reason behind the same, please do not ignore this its a request.... - Anaida [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hello madam this is really sad to see but then please speak to your daughter and ask her why is she doing like this and what is the exact problem because there might be chances that your daughter is hiding something from you and you should think on he same.... - Vijay [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hello Divya please do not leave this matter as it should be dealt immediately and you should not leave this like this, please get this sorted out as soon as possible and you should also know one thing that this is very rare to see in kids nowadays... - Vinay [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hey dear according to me its completely fine and you need not to worry so much as she is very young and as time passes she will develop this in her, please do not worry and also do not force her also for the same as this is will really be a bad thing to do.... - Anita [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hi dear i can understand this issue as the same was the case with my son and till the age of 14 he was like this then someone told me to put him in personality development course and after doing so there was a complete change in his body language and he was totally different.... - Anaida [View Message]
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