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well herez my story...i am blessed with a beautiful child and a lovable husband.none can b comparable with my husband. he iz a gem.

my fil who stayed with us untill my delivery was a wonderful person.i love him so much n he loves me too like his own daughter..surprises me with gifts n we always chat together on weekends..he iz a very respectable n honest person to my whole family..my husband iz my distant relative.
i went to india for my delivery..my mil came here frm india at the same time.i came back here after 3 months..things were changed a lot..

my fil started hating me,he didnot even smile when i came back.they all diidnot care my baby..though i was tensed by his behaviour i thought he will chnage...my husband always supports me .

then my mil went back to india.my fil stayed seperately frm us.he stopped calling us..now the problem iz my fil n my inlaws are now spreading wrong informations abt me n my husband.in our family some of them asked me abt those..i never ever thought that it happen to me n my husband..100 's of lie's abt us....they have seen my baby hardly thrice.now totally stopped coming to our home..
they went to my parents n complained abt me behaving bad with them...blabla''s...my husband still supports me saying that\";never mind those poeple..itz just thier misundertsnading..they will realize one day\";

he iz a very bold n beautiful person so he can take it that way..but i am feeling very upset these days..i am very angry n tensed..my sil who will backbitch with others abt me and calls me by fone n talks sweet to me.

i never ever utter a single word against them..but they are cursing us n our baby too with others..i cant stand anymore..i feel to call them n fire...shall i??or i shud shut my mouth untill they realize the truth...still i beleive that my fil iz a nice person but he heard wat his daughter says.
the prob iz as my fil iz a favourite person in our family all our family members beliave that we have done a sin to them..so we cant go to india anymore..wat can i do??otherwise i am very comfortable n proud to b a wife o my husband.shall i talk back ? ash replied. YOu want your husband or your in- laws. Your husband is with you. your child is with you. What the hell do you want now.

This world is like this only, noone wants to see others happy as in your case. People arent worried because of their worries , they are worried because others are happy.

Believe me even own brother and sisters are also not happy to see that they are flourishing happily.


Just think about you and your husband , let your in laws go in hell. Who are you to think about them. They are your in laws only because of your husband , if you had not got your husband they had not been your in-laws. So, your husband is your God , pray him,

Actually this is one of the weakness of women, they will always be worrying over something or the other. Just be happy with whatever you have , if you try to grab entire world , then you have to leave this world and sit in some heavenly abode .

Only the inmates of heaven have the authority to grab the entire happiness of this world not the human.

We human have to always leave something to get something. There is always give and take ...........

Ash
KUNJULAKSHMI replied.
You are very lucky, because your husband is in the right side. Say thanks to GOD.

Most of the ladies don't have this luck.
PRAY FOR THESE LADIES who are suffering without any reason.

outofmind replied. thanx for ur healing words...i am a very sensitive person itz my disadvantage ....lemme try to b bold n call him one day n try to talk to him..thanx again fd fd replied. hi

i too m a very sensitive person and if someone hurts me without i being in fault...i feel very uneasy.

good that ur husband knows u and takes ur side. and i m sure this SIL usually create misunderstanding and bitch about us, as they are jealous about the good relation with our inlaws. My Sil also did they same when i cameback with my daughter after delivery. But tell u what....dont change and be bad. But one day, decide with ur husband and call them up and talk on speaker phone and talk straight with ur Father inlaw.....ask him what is wrong and what hurt u so much.....as u are not able to bear this pain .....if he is a good person...he is forgive and understand u.

so this will lighten ur heart and in case, they dont want to patchup......why do u care.....live happyily with ur hubby and kid.....enjoy ur life.....dont think on people who dont care about u.