Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Dear all,
my daughter is three months now...i want two children so i want to start trying now so that my children have ONLY one year gap.My problems are one:i have not yet got my periods back and two:i want a son so when should be the right time

please help archie replied. I think I have read this message earlier as well in last two-three days under different name (referring to person).
In this message you seek help from Archie (title) but start with *Dear all*, much more confusion.

Anyway, planning second pregnancy is your choice. However I would not suggest to try to get pregnant soon after child birth. Your first one should get enough of attention and you should nurse that baby at least for six months if not for a year. thereafter you can try for second baby. This my suggestion, you choose when to try.

Sorry, I do not assist while choosing gender so that be choosing baby girl or baby boy. I do understand your concern, you mentioned in earlier message that you are not rich to afford third baby incase second one turns out to be girl again. YOu want to boost chances of having boy.
I think someone tried to suggest you use of OPK.
If you are different person, I am sorry.

Archie supriyasanoj replied. Eventhough your message is addessed to archie...i would like to add my views.your thought is right to have babies soon.but trying now itself and having it before a year is very early.because my kids have a difference of 1 year and 5 months,and my second pregnancy was unexpected..i will say it is very tiring and babies realy lack our attention.give some time for your body to recover and get prepared for an another pregnancy and delivery.atleast upto 8 or 10 months.still the babies will be small and they wont have much difference.take care.