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see decide one of these options

1- somedays back this was in news on TV also. There are internet sites available whom u send ur urine/blood sample and they tell u boy/girl in 48 hrs .. something like this. It had become v famous as it was v cheap but it is illegal

1- if u are almost sure its a girl, go for an abortion right now. Plan next pregnancy. Take all possible steps to get a boy .. refer chinese calenadar, not wearing diamond finger rings, red abt it on net etc ... execute all myths or realities.

If u still have a girl, accept it.

- if u dont want to abort, stop thinking if its a boy or girl .. completely.
Its not good to worry in pregnancy.
Take a final decision, accept it to u first, and then live it.
Jo hai so hai, duniya bhaad me jaye.
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now think for a min ...... why are we thinking on these lines of girl/boy? does it matter to we mothers? NO! it is only because of people.
Outsiders.
Why should one/two sentences from outsiders impact our whole life?

why shd a mother be sad for the baby being a girl/boy? If an individual doesnt like his/her gender, then there is a problem. Why shd we be worried abt someone else's gender? The baby will never ask mummy why did u make me girl/boy...?

I told u i hv been thru same thing. Today where i stand ... i hv simply closed ears to people who comment to me using the old indian preferences of boy. I am so happy with my 2 little angels.
When i see them playing together ... its heaven.

U know what .. my elder daughter was the one who encouraged us to think abt second baby, she always asked for someone to play with. Right from start she said she wanted a little sister. She has named her little sis when i was pregnant 4m.

She was always confident that she will hv a sis and not brother.

today when i look back, i laught at myself to be bothered by stupid traditions. My kid is happy, my kids are healthy ... what more can i ask for?

Yes i had a wish for a boy for a different reason, but thats ok. not a big deal.

Har kisiko mukammal jahan nahi milta.
Kisi ko zameen nahi milti, kisi ko aasmaan nahi milta.

think abt it. b happy. Rakhi replied. Well my story is entirely different . Me and hubby were crazy about a baby girl and always communicated in terms of baby girl only throughout my pregnancy but I delivered a baby boy . We welcomed our son with open hands and accepted everything as God's gift. But still my longing for a baby girl increase as and when I see these small cute sweet girls.

You are an educated girl and do not give thoughts to stupid people. Having a child be it a boy or girl is itself a blessing. Think about the couples who do not have a child and can go to any extent to have one.
Enjoy everything on God and just enjoy your pregnancy never ever thought about an abortion.

stunn replied. visit http://images dot google dot com/images?hl=en&q=abort

juz look at the above site n decide ...i will telll that one who aborts babies shud b hanged to death or stonned to death.juz think whether u can see ur first child whom u love got cut in to pieces ....same thing iz abortion \" cutting ur unseen baby in to pieces\" with ur permission...sorry to say thiz.