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hi all,
i'm really having a tough time making the decision of my life.hope u'll all help me find a solution.
i'm a south indian girl.i'm in luv wid my 1st cousin.marriages between cousins are permitted in our custom.he also loves me.both of us know we love each other from childhood,but none of us have expressed our feelings for each other.now,since my parents have started to look a groom for me,i'm getting worried.though i love my cousin,i'm keeping it to myself.this is because i've heard that the marriage between cousins are scientifically not good as it may affect the child born.i've heard that the children born to blood relatives r mentally or physically handicap.i dont want to be careless & selfish to cause harm to an innocent baby just because of my desires.my cousin loves me too,but hasnt told me anything directly.i can see that in his actions though.......so can u all plz suggest what shld i do? is it really harmful to marry him? shld i go ahead & propose to him or just supress my feelings & marry whomever my parents suggest? i'm desperately waiting for ur responses.thank u all in advance raj sharma replied. hi preeti marriage is a life long relation ship and one must not be and one must not take a intense dicussion and later repent for it. think after that will ur parent accept u and him. if no can u live with out ur parents?
is his family ready to accept ur marriage? if no can u survive alone?
man is a social animal and need his nearer and dears at the time of up and down.today ur like him but reality gound are diffrent. ur parent can access best for u and life is not same every time and if u obey them they will be with u all the time in up and down of ur life.