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Joint Family:being independent
2003-10-08
Name: kmk



Hi

I agree to all your views of women being independent, i am a working women also, since i am financially independent, i could handle my in-laws problems to some extend, if not my story would have ended long before, ( i mean me and my hubby would have got sepereated), by now i feel i want to take a break from my work, i am very stressed, but i am very scared and i feel insecured having the thought of not working. I am quite my in-laws will give me hell lot of headache if i am going to stay with them at home.

Though we claim to be financially independent, the actually it is very stressful to manage home & office, i am really getting exhausted nowdays.
It looks like all along your life, you have think about how to prevent people who try to make your life miserable rather than thinking about u and your family. I guess most of us are in the same position Isn't that true
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2003-10-17
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Anonymous Name: juvinile
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kmt,

what is exactly your problem. If both you are your husband are willing to stay out of your IL's then everything is fine.
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