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2003-10-01
Name: frined ddd



Date: 2003-10-01
Name: abc
Subject: confused
Hi friends

Just to check with you something, how do u feel if you came to know that your in-laws are somehow overhearing all the conversation between you and ur hubby when they are not at home

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2003-10-02
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Anonymous Name: abc
Subject:  u know why



It so happened there was a fight with them, during the confrontation they could tell us everything that me and my husband were talking, infact my husband was also unhappy about few things which he expressed to me, they scolded him back for that and also me, when asked about how do u know all this, they just keep quite.
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2003-10-05
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Anonymous Name: Nina
Subject:  Hmmm



Wow, abc,
that is scary, I almost think they must either have the house wired or something...

That makes me really wonder if that hasn't happened to me in some time.

Well, what you and your husband should do it be extra careful and also maybe next time, talk in code...or, maybe if the discussion is mild, go to a quiet park and sit on the swings and talk...that is, if no one else is there.
take care,
Nina

P.S. thank you for your response
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2003-10-02
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Anonymous Name: Nina
Subject:  listening in



Hello,
I don't know exactly the setting, but, I assume that either your husband is telling his parents things that you and him are talking about, or, someone is eaves dropping...perhaps listening through windows.

It's amazing how that can happen.

Exactly what kinds of ways did you come to know your inlaws knew of the conversations?

Nina
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