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Hi friends,

Just to let you know that the message posted by tanisha shrivastave on ‘breastmilk’ is not fake.
I have also seen a similar situation with a close friend of mine. She could not conceive after trying very hard for 3 years. She had no BIL, so FIL had to help out. Yeah that’s right…FIL had to help her conceive as her husband is the only son and they wanted to carry on with their so called ‘vansh’. They also performed some weird rituals to make sure that she gives birth to a boy…and she did….And after birth…As a ritual…FIL would wash her breasts with rose water, cowmilk and kesar and put a “Tilak” (Teeka) on her breasts. This continued for full one year…..

ARAVIND SWAMY replied. Hi Sheena,
I wish to study this pooja form that poojari.

Please let me know soon.

analyst replied. Oh really ! Wierd rituals for begetting a son ? Huh !!!! Where does your friend live ? Might be your friend and her inlaws have migrated before independence to Canada, Australia or New Zealand. So naturally they have not experienced how modern India is now. They might be still doing these funny rituals in some far away land. Ofcourse in these countries you can have internet connections and also from the language you are using it sounds that way. And how do you know this tanisha is telling the truth. U must be the same person writing in different names to have some fun. Or u r in some night shift and bored with ur work and writing all this nonsense. Swapna replied. Hey gals ,wake up.I can never beleive such things happen in India.As far as I know , Fils can be a pervert sometimes and try to misbehave with Dils ,but never express milk and offer to Gods and all that.
Whoever wrote the original story and this one is a real fake.If that Manisha whatever says is true ,she wouldnt be complaining about how painful it was or how her breast size has increased.She would be asking people as to how to stop her Fil from doing it to her. hello replied. hello

i am also an Indian. i cannot believe these all happening in india. BIL sleeping with bhabhi and FIL doing weird pooja and all. Inda in my mind is a beautful country with lots of poor but cultured people at least trying to behave modestly. YES all people r not so educated and rich but
.... i am, also from a vllage and i don't know these knd of rtuals . n ur place FIL IS SAME AS FATHER BIL IS SAME AS BROTHER. weird india. yeah replied. I cannot imagine someone putting a tilak on someone's breasts?..least it be a FIL on his DIL..
O M G this is atrocious.
There is someting totally wrong with these families?!...This is the most worsest/ cruelest form of torture to any woman.I feel sick to the stomach. Nav replied. Hi
I do agree there are some weird rituals practised by Indians, I agree on the fact young girls are married to appease gods and subsequently priest and village head sleep with them I also agree bro-in-law's sleeping with bhabi if brother has died or cannot sire children. Some cases I have read MIL's encouraging FILs to sleep with DILs. But what I feel strange about Tanisha is , she has access to net, that shows she is not a tribal or un educated person. Can she let these kind of things to happen with her? Doesn't she care about her own modesty? if she has let him really do what ever she has written then it could be more on mutual consent than any ritual, also in villages women feed babies upto 2-3 years for a very basic reason, they won't get dairy milk through out the year. I feel tanisha(cud be a guy or a gal) has written this whole thing more on fantasy than reality. If it is really true then I will condemn the way their family is doing all the non sense in name of rituals.
Nav puja replied. I have read similar stories in Hindi Magazines like “satya kahaniya” etc….It is really shocking, but unfortuanately it is true. I have heard of many instances where brother in laws can sleep with their bhabhis for various stupid reasons. I am not sure if you have seen that movie “Matrbhumi” which is based on true story, where a girl is married to 4 or 5 brothers and is shared by all including their father…So, with all the modernization and globalization, India is still back wards in some areas…
I was doing some research into these areas and found lot of shocking and hard to believe things like: FIL sleeping with DIL on certain days, Breast puja to enhance milk supply by FIL on DIL (which means touching and massaging), marrying youngs girls to God and then they are require to sleep with priests..and you know what those old preists would do to those young innocent girls while sleeping with them and such examples can go on an on…Really sad