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hi all,
i have been married for 3 years.i have a good relationship wid my hubby.my problem is my cousin.we hardly had any contact with each other & used to meet only in social get togethers before marriage.he was totally fine & was talking normally wid me.he never expressed any special feelings towards me.( though we both had slight crushes on each other) we both new we had crush on each other but never expressed anything.since he also didnt express anything i went ahead & got married wid someone else & i really love my husband.the problem is as soon as i got married my cousin went crazy & after marriage he started saying he loves me & stuffs like this via emails & chats. i got really angry with his behaviour as he was talking like that to me after marriage.so i'm trying to totally avoid him now, but he always try to find some or the other way to contact me.i'm getting very scared now.i dont know what to do.since he's my cousin i cant create a scene also as it will be embarrasing to me also.i feel he's obssesed about me.i dont know what happened to him after my marriage.before marriage he was taking me for granted & never expressed any of his feelings.he's started all these after my marriage. i love my husband very much & i dont want anything to affect my marriage.i have never scolded him also. i have just kept quite or ignored him dont know whether i did the right or wrong thing.i'm so soft natured that i cant be rude to anyone also.so anyone plzzz advice how to handle him & the situation.also if anyone can tell me why he's acting this way.i'm really worried.plzzzz advice lnk replied. I totally agree with Kunju Lakshmi, be very careful in your interaction with this person, he may even say bad things about you to your husband and he might start imagining things when he sees you together KUNJU LAKSHMI replied.
Dear sister,

Don't write anything to this person as he may may dictate so many meanings in your mail later. Just tell him that you will tell his parents this subject if he advances more. May be this guy is thinking that you are married, the registration of a girl's ownership is over, He may be dreaming sex with you.(At present he don't have any responsibility or liability to you).

LET THIS DEVIL GO TO HELL.DON'T WRITE ANYTHING, DON'T LET HIM RECORD ANY CONVERSATION + OR - .

YOU DON'T WORRY. oooooooooooooo replied. Repeated post