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hi...my name is joann, im a filipina, right now im on my 28 weeks of pregnancy. the father of my baby happen to be an indian, he's from gujarat. until now his family doesn't know that im having a baby by their son, he's afraid to tell his parents because they moght throw him away, and he also told me that i will not be accepted by his family especially his parents because im not an indian. my question is, should i tell his parents about it? what might happen? thanks... Gatot Handoko replied. You have to brave facing your matter. Everyone has problems. Be sure that God will helps you. You can contact me, to get my pray and energy transfer ana replied. i m not sure who has posted this message - the girl from filipina or her indian boyfriend :)
well, you are already in your 28th week. You hv come this long means you had enough time to abort the baby but u decided to carry along.

Though babies are borne by humans, once they are there, they are noticed by God.

Take care of yourself and your baby right now. Enjoy your pregnancy, and enjoy the baby when it arrives.

I would also suggest to talk to the parents directly. Be nice to your boyfriend meanwhile.

If they accept you, fine. Else, dont worry. A baby is such a wonderful gift, it is above everything else in this world!

You can then decide to contact NARIKA or go back your own way.

Dont worry. Motherhood is a blessing, u will know it in some time. Boyfriend/husband is not everything in life. There is life beyond that. And life beyond that is happy too.

The baby is your responsibility. Make sure the baby doesnt suffer in all this.

i have 2 kids. i m a working person. I married the boy i loved. I know you dont need to worry. Enjoy the baby dear!

ana Mary replied. You dont tell this to them Ask him to tell.

Where r u rt now ?

Ask abt his plan of how he is going to tell his parents . If he says scared and bullshit reasons , then ask abt his plan of how he is going to handle.

Pls You get married him first.

All the best . Enjoy your prgnancy !!!

yeah keep us updated with what happpens :-)
ic replied. one thing i dont understand, y r u bothered about his parents. what is his opinion ? Does he not want to marry you ? What does he want to do with the baby once its born ? Does he ask you leave him now or go for abortion ? Why are you so scared of his parents ? Its between you and him. All parents are not bad. Some are understanding. So first see if really his parents are bad. He might be scared. Are you scared that his parents might support him and throw you out ? Its better to tell your parents. Dont handle all these issues yourself. Take the help of somebody. helpin replied. first stop worrying. handle this rogue tactfully. i cant generalise indians and give opinion about his parents. from now onwards dont tell ur boyfriend about what ur doing with ur pregnancy. dont cry in front of him. speak very nicely with him. enjoy ur pregnancy. one fine day when u r in your full spirits, dont call, but go to his house and introduce urself to his parents and tell them about ur pregnancy. incase they ask u to abort or say nasty things just gracefully leave their house. go home and call NARIKA ( 1.800.215.7308) or maitri ( 1-888-862-4874). hoping that they would help u. what about ur parents? did you tell them ? what are they telling ?