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Hey all ,

I gave birth 1 month ago , and from the day My MIL saw my baby health book record , she keep on torturing me because me and my DH having diffent blood group , she telling that if husband and wife having diff blood group they cannot be togother for longer time , she sometimes regret choosing me and sometimes she even use harsh words , til now i just ignore eveything and be good with her as nothing happend , but from past 1 week im crying a lot cant keep in my heart that;s why came to this board, friend is it wrong to have diferent blood grp pls advice .. SG replied. i think this is not the remark u r crying for...must be many more...now when the baby has come into this world...why the hell she is saying all this...If u r tense only abt this ..just tell abt it to ur hubby and calm urself...MIL ki aadat hoti hai...Thrs nothing much to do in this age for them thats why..Take good care of ur baby.. verne replied. tell her spouses having the same blood group causes deformities in children, i know it cause i am a doctor, we handle such cases, you and ur hubby should never have the same blood group. tell ur mil to get educated, stupid cork. Kavitha replied. Friends ,

Thanks to all for the replies , i too know blood group nothing to do with the marriage , but my MIL telling me that she and her hubby had same blood group and so her parents and parents in law , im not sure whether all that true or not and my baby is having A+ blood group like her dad , my MIL telling me that when the baby grow up she wont close to me , and she telling that see the baby look like my son , she will be close to us only ( hubby and MIL) sometimes her word is painful for me , im not able to do anything rather than crying myself , im trying my best to ignore her words ....

Thank you so much for the replies , it really helped me ...

di bh replied. Hey Dont bother about your MIL. There sole aim in life is to ruin DILs peace of mind. And whoever told about husband and wife having same blood group. They come up with one and after another idiotic things to drive DILs to the wall.
Hey dont take nonsense from anybody the more u bend the more they will make you bend they will not see how much u bent for them. But for them there is always more room for bending to their wishes.enjoy your time with the baby.
Also tell her point blank when she tells something bad about you. You know my Fil used to throw one accusation after other for 3 yrs of my marriage i dont live with them so i neglected it but the last time he talked to me he accused my parents of not bringing me up well. Thats it i gave him back and told him not to tell nonsense about my parents.from then on i had courage to do the same to my nosy SIL and her husband.and let me tell u i dont regret it.My husband saw my point and didnt say anything to me or them. so unknown support.The point of telling u this is nobody is worth crying or feeling hurt about.
And if all husbands and wives separated becoz of not having same blood group there wud be nobody married in this world today.Marriage is not built on same blood group but solid understanding and love of husband and wife for each other.Take care and best of luck. hi replied. hi kavitha

hey, it might have been a real problem if u two have the same blood group while delivery. u know, it is aserious problem. thank god, all people'll pray that they both have diff blood group.
don't listen what ur ignorant mil talks. s he and her husbaand have the same group?
hey, don't ever listen to those idiotic remarks.
enjoy ur days wth baby. people'll say all sorts of things. when they get a chance u know. don;t bother about such thngs. if u r havng real difficulty in dealng with silly things, u can talk to ur doctor about this. most women develop this after delivery.
so keep away from this ignorant mil.
be happy and cheerful . let her be ashamed of talking this nonsense. suma replied. Hi Kavitha

Just ignor ur MIL she is finding a reason to torture u. Tell her to check with her son and complaint with him. U should be enjoying ur motherhood and pl pl stop crying it will affect ur baby tooo...., forget all her comments and concentrate only on ur child the SMILES of the baby :) will soothe all ur problems. SANGINI replied. I can't believe that ur MIL talks this shit tell her that if the hubby and wifes blood group is same there are chances of having deformities in the child u dumbo(for yout MIL) and by the way why did't u tell your husband oh good grace next time she will serach of groom or bride for her kids she will check the blood group give her answer don't cry this the time to cherish don't listen to dumb heads rather answer her back and tell ur husband and please don't believe in this bullshit and enjoy u will have lovely time with ur kid get over it... its time to celebrate and not cry tell you MIL MINDLESS INLAW pooja replied. hi there,
i just don't get it!! Hubby's & wife's blood grp shd be same? Where in the world is ur MIL? Why r u crying for the stupidest remarks of tht lady? Looks like u r having post partum depression. Chase her away from ur house now especially when u just had a baby. You might develop life long hatred towards her.
good luck & take care sandhya replied. Why do you cry for silly reason?.Why do u have to give so much importance to your mil?.it is with in you, how you take it.send her back to her home to some peace. console replied. I want to say your mil dont know any thing.please dont take me wrong.there is nothing wrong if you have differnt blood groups.you have a healthy baby just enjoy him.she just wants to pick on you and make you cry,
which you are doing.dont worry and be happy.let her words bounce off before entering your ears.take care.