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hi all,
i'm married for 2 years & live in US.my husband is a nice man.i have no issues regarding that. my problem is i had lost my mother at a very young age.since then people( my dad's family members) had started taking me for granted.my dad has 2 sisters & they both are very mean people.i hadto suffer
a lot & finally by God's grace when i got married they felt even more jealous of us & them& their husband's are acting very mean from that time.they said very hurtful things to me & they even hoped & wished bad things to us.though i know that they are not Gods & nothing they say will come true still due to my insecurities i get very scared remembering what all they said.my dad never understandsthis as they are his sisters. .moreover they had always been too interfering in all my stuffs & they try to do the same thing even after marriage.they expect a lot from us & its totally ingenuine expectations.allthese things are affecting my relationship wid my husband too..i dont know how to get rid of them as in India all these relatives & stuffs r a major deal.anyone plzzz advice & tell me how can i handle them.i have lost my peace of mind & i've been getting nightmares for the bad things they said.plzz help me to get rid of it. hi replied. hello dear friend

first of all make up your mind. now ur husband is ur family. and it is with whom u r going to live ur later life and i'm very happy to know he is very good to u.

so don't something like these things try to disturb u and affect ur husband wife relatons. NO MATTER WHAT ALWAYS AND ALWAYS BE GOOD FRIEND AND WIFE TO HIM. because he can protect u love u and make u feel whole. so, avoid them. they r ur aunties right? keep them at that distance. whatever they had done for u( if something good) don't let them take advantage of that. because it is their duty as their brother's daughter they should do that. so don't feel bad avoiding them when they try to make u bad and try to intervene in ur family matters.

U HAVE TO SAY NO TO THINGS EHICH U R NOT SUPPOSED TO DO AND TO KEEP THEM AT A GOOD DISTANCE SO THAT THEY SLOWLY STEP BACK FROM UR LIFE. U CAN TELL THEM THAT U R DOING THNGS AS UR HUSBAND SAYS. SO U CANNOT DO ANYTHING AS THEY WISH .

dear friend, stand on ur feet and have anice sweet famly with beautiful kids. always pray and be happy. Selvi replied. First of all i m sorry for what u r going thru.But u got to stand up for yourself.b4 your marriage u cud have been vulnearble to those creatures but now build up your braveness and fight them.Becoz u dont want this to happen to your kids OR Thank god u r very far way from them and Get rid of those people mentally and enjoy your sweetly upgraded life.Wish u success and happiness in your new life. kuntala replied. ramaskandham hanumantam |
vainateyam vrikodaram ||
shayaneya smarennityam |
dusvapnam tasya nashyati ||

Meaning: Meditating upon Hanumanta, Bhima and Garuda before going to bed ensures a sleep without disturbing dreams.