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2001-05-25
Name: Sibi



Every day my child yells out when I go to work. It is really a pain for me. I get totally disturbed by this. Can anybody help me out?
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2001-08-09
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Anonymous Name: working mom
Subject:  daycare baby



I have left my child in daycare since he was a few months old and I can understand that it is difficult to leave when they are crying but you have to. Here are somethings I do and they help:
1) Give your baby a kiss goodbye (but don't say goodbye)at least 5 minutes before you leave and tell them you love them.
2) Make sure you have everything you need at the door or outside the door so you can get out very fast
3) Make sure your child is occupied with something he/she likes to do so they don't see you leave. If your child is at home, keep your child in another room (away from the main door) and let the caregiver play a game or old your child (not facing you, but to at least let your child know you are still there). When you know your child is occupied, sneak out.
4) When you come home, go to your child and give them a big hug and kiss and tell them you missed them and love them.

It doesn't matter how old they are but you need to set a routine, that is what children need.
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2001-06-15
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Anonymous Name: motherV
Subject:  Happy Child



Dear Friend,

i go to work too and my son (11 months) stays at home with my MIL. He usually is awake when i leave and is quite happy when i leave he thinks it is a game of hide and seek and mama will just go away for a long time and then he also has good company to keep him occupied. how old is yur child.... depending on that you could try to make this a game or play with your child before you leave and spend time with it as soon as you are back. that will make your child feel secure . make sure the care giver in your absence is really taking care of your baby. playing etc.

Best of luck
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2001-05-28
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Anonymous Name: Suhail
Subject:  Don't give in



You should not give in when your child yells. If you give in to a child yelling, he/she thinks that they will get what they want when they yell and then they'll yell more.
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