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Waiting to try:Pls help
2006-02-07
Name: Worried mom



Hi all,
i don;t know hether tis the right place to post my message. But being abroad and having amenatal torture i really need help.

I am now 10 weeks pregnent. I hv a shorter cycle (25 days)and i concived on my 8th day. It was accudental and mis calculation of safe period.
Now i will come to the problem . I was concived in away (sitting position, me upside). And now my hubby is rally doubtful abt that. He says no way i can get prenenat tin that way. I am totally lost and i just wanted to end my life. Pls help me how can i convince my hubby?
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2006-02-07
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Anonymous Name: Friend
Subject:  Happened to me



Hello,

Wish i could reveal my name. But my second child was conceived when i was in sitting position. It was a complete surprise. Although my husband was not mentally prepared for a second child, he had to accept fate. he is now happy with my pregnancy.

I pray that your hubby gets some good sense. I think you can make him talk to your doctor. Sometimes they are convinced when someone other than wife talks to them.
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2006-02-07
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Anonymous Name: meena
Subject:  hi



Hi,
I know for a fact that u can conceive on 8th day[my sis-in-law is and example]. I also have a friend who conceived on 21st day! Such things do happen. One can easily conceive with the woman on top postion too. Pl tell your hubby all this. He is a fool to doubt u.
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2006-02-07
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Anonymous Name: strawberrypink
Subject:  Oh! my god...



Dear worried mom,
Congrats on your pregnency:)

What kinda person is your hubby?Whatz the way he is thinking in?He sounds ignorant to me.
No matter which postion you are in when things have to happen it ll happen.How can he say that?
When you guys tried may be you were ovulating,so acc to him was that the only time u tried?Din't you try anytimes later?
No 1 can say that you have conceived only on the 8th day.
I pray god that he chages him mind n come out the nutshell,n think.....!
You guys shd be happy and enjoy,this is not the way he shd treat you....

Make him realise....I may sound harsh sorry for that.When a man treats women like this...I just can't bear it.
bye
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