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hi all,
true that we will be the future MIL... really hope not to be like our MIL.
the thinng is my mil thinks that she is a great mil .the thing is her mil is also staying with us,
she says in front of her son that she does not want me to suffer like her.
she acts a lot highly irretating .she really made me to cry silenty when i was preg i used to do all work inspite of my doc telling i had to take complete bed rest,but i did everything as she had her uters removed and had few striches she created a big issue simply cry about nothing.
after my delivery it was c section i came to my inlaws place as i was to go to US with my 2 months old baby i had to do all work from giving bath to my baby cooking and everything.u will not believe i cooked and did all work even on the day on which i have to start.
now my mil is going come to US .i have a good relationship with her as i mostly dont give back answers not that i am afride of her , its because she is a good actor and my hubby loves her somuch.to be frank till we came here we never went for any dinner or movie allone,as i always thought that every body around me should be happy.she comes for chat daily and hurts me in some way or other really hurts me a lot.
can some one tell me how can i make my hubby know it?? di bh replied. hey dont bother.try to spend as less time with your mil as possible.Enroll for some class. and when u are in contact with her try to be busy cooking or cleaning .When u are with her keep away from any topics which she can turn and project u as something else.And be normal when u are with your husband and her then she will get no chance to say anything.