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WE GOT MARRIED 2YRS AGO JUST THE DAY AFTER THE MARRIAGE MY HUSBAND ASKED ME TO SET HIS HAIR ALL OF A SUDDEN MY MIL JUMPED IN AND TOOK THE COMB AND STARTED SETTING HIS HAIR LIKE A NURSERY KIDS HAIRSTYLE..AND STARTED TELLING TO HER SON THAT WAT SON AFTER YOUR WIFE CAME U WANT HER TO SET YOUR HAIR?? DONT U WANT ME? I WAS TEH ONE WHO USED TO COMB YOUR HAIR WHEN U USED TO GO TO SCHOOL DID U FORGET THAT? ADN THE NEXT DAY MORNING MY HUSBAND ASKED ME TO MASSAGE HIS HEAD WITH OIL SINCE I AM A BEAUTION I KNOW IT WELL..BUT EVEN NOW MY MIL JUMPED IN AND TOOK THE OIL FROM ME AND STARTED MASSAGING HIS HEAD[ACTUALLY SHE WAS SCRATCHING HIS HEAD] AND MY HUSBAND STARTED TELLING AMMA U DONT KNOW HOW TO MASSAGE U LEAVE MY HEAD...SO SHE STARTED SCOLDING HIM TELLING THAT AFTER WIFE CAME U WANT HER TO DO ALL THESE BEFORE I USE TO DO...BUT FACT WAS THAT AFTER MY HUBBYS SCHOOLING SHE HAS NEVER TOUCHED HER HEAD TO SET HIS HAIR NOT TO DO ANY MASSAGE BUT THE DAY AFTER THE MARRIAGE WE GOT MARRIED ON MAY 28TH AND SHE STARTED SHOWING HER OVER POSSESSIVENESS ON 30TH ITSELFF THOUGH I WAS VERY NEW TO PEOPLE AND HOUSE SHE DIDNT CARE ALL SHE WANTED TO SHOW WAS SHE IS GOT MORE RIGHT ON MY HUSBAND THAN ME AND SHE WANTED TO MAKE ME FEEL THAT I NEED TO STAY IN MY LIMITS AND NOT DO ANYTHING WHAT MY HUSBAND ASKS ME TO DO...THOUGH WE WERE NEWLY MARRIED MY HUSBAND DIDNT HAV COMMON SENSE TO TAKE ME OUT SIDE ALL THE WHILE IH AD TO STAY INSIDE THE HOUSE AND HE USE TO GO ALONE RAOMING AND RETURN HOME AROUND 1-2AM N THE NIGHT...ONCE I MADE AN EFFORT AND TOLD THAT I FEEL VERY BORED AT HOME TAKE ME OUTSIDE..SO THE NEXT DAY EVENING HE TOLD ME TO GET READY WE WILL GO OUTSIDE...I GOT READY WE BOTH WERE NEAR THE DOOR TO GO OUTSIDE AND ALL OF A SUDDEN HIS MOM STARTED TELLING I DONT GO OUTSIDE ANYWHERE? THER ES NO ONE TO TAKE ME OUTSIDE CAN'T U GO OUTSIDE ALONE WHY DO U WANT TO TAKE HER ALONG WITH U? CAN'T SHE STAY AT HOME??..LISTENING TO THIS MY HUSBAND SAYS ME TO ME TO GO N CHANGE YOUR DRESS AND STAY BACK AT HOME I WILL GO ALONE N COME....I FELT VERY BAD MY HEART WAS BROKEN EVEN THE LEAST PRIVACY/FREEDOM WHICH I EXPECTED I WOULD ENJOY WITH MY HUSBAND ALSO GOT CRUSHED BY MY MIL JUST TO SHOW OFF THAT HER SON LISTENS TO ALL HER WORDS SHE WANTED ME TO SEE IT THASTY....CURRENTLY I HAV GOT 4-5 MONTHS OLD BABY BUT MY HUBBY IS LEAST BOTHERED TO EVEN ASK HOW IS THE KID WHEN HE GIVES ME A CALL RARELY....HE IS IN ARMY AND CURRENTLY HE IS STAYING FAR AWAY NOW HE HAS GOT HIS HOLIDAYS FOR A MONTHS TIME BUT HE HAS GONE TO HIM MOTHER AND STAYING THER WITH HER HE IS NOT EVEN BOTHERD TO COME AND SEE ME NOR THE BABY...I AM SICK AND TIRED OF MARRIED LIFE ...IF I ASK HIM T HAT HE NEEDS TO BE A GOOD HUSBAND AND A GOOD FATHER HE SAYS U MUST BE IN MY PARENTS FEET DOING THEIR SEVA....THASTY I GOT MARRIED...HE MEANS TO SAY THAT THEY WANTED A SERVANT AT THEIR HOME ...AND FOR MY HUSBAND HE NEEDS ME ONLY N THE NIGHT TIME...AND THE REST OF THE DAY HE DOESN'T EVEN REMEMBER THAT HE IS MARRIED....BASICALLY MY IN LAWS WANTED A SERVANT AT HOME AND THEIR SON THATS I SMY HUSBAND WANTED SOMEONE TO SATISFY HIS PHYSICAL NEEDS AND TO COOK FOR HIM....HE DIDNT EVEN WANTED ME TO BECOME A PREGNANT ....EVEN WHEN I WAS CARRYING ONCE IN 4TH MONTHS AND AGAIN IN 6TH MONTHS HE TOLD BE TO ABORT.... I DONT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THIS DUMB HUSBAND OF MINE WHAT DO I DO? PLEASE ADVICE

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