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I am married just 4 mths ago. Immediately after marriage I went on to stay with husband abroad. Now I am back as I am pregnant. He felt that its better I go back as he did not have time from work for me.

After I have come back, my husband initially used to talk on phones atleast once a week. Now he seems unconcerned. Worst If I write to him or sms him he doesnt respond properly. EVen prior to marriage if I asked any questions regarding his plans or future or accomodation plans as we were staying in shared accomodation abroad he used to get wild on me. Even w.r.t. to child plans I didnt want one so soon as we didnt even have a good place to stay but he for putting his pt said that he can afford very big place. Slightest issues he just picks up, gets angry, keeps warning me of separations.

What should I do?







beena replied. hi nilu
divorce is not the only solution, first all of u have sit and discuss about the future. as u r pregnant it will be very much difficult for u to tolerate all these things, but u have to discuss and finalize everything. U dont show that u r scared bcoz of his warning of separation. If separation is the only way then go ahead, u can live a individual life with ur kid. nowadays girls r not at all scared of anything. dont show fear on ur face at all. be courageous.
all the best sandya replied. one day just sit with him, try to talk to him, ask anything is bothering him??.otherwise sit with your parents & his parents with him, discuss the problems & solution.my husband use to use that trick to scare me , about saparation, but some may realy doesn't mean that..one day I just told him, if he wants to divorce me he can..I will go, afterwards he never told me that...but other female may not be lucky as I am..It takes a while to understand each other give little more time.since you are pregnant you can diverse your mind towards baby. sandya replied. one day just sit with him, try to talk to him, ask anything is bothering him??.otherwise sit with your parents & his parents with him, discuss the problems & solution.my husband use to use that trick to scare me , about saparation, but some may realy doesn't mean that..one day I just told him, if he wants to divorce me he can..I will go, afterwards he never told me that...but other female may not be lucky as I am..It takes a while to understand each other give little more time.since you are pregnant you can diverse your mind towards baby. xyz replied. Divorce is the best solution. Ask for alimony. As one door closes another door opens and welcomes you so no need to take his shit.If he is not concerned why run after him. IT's just been 4 months so it would be easy for you to seperate. I'm sure the guy you marry will be very loving caring as all hubbies are.