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dear all, i appreciate this site and i hope to get a solution tto my problem.i have a caring husband but few of his gestures have confused me a bit.some time ago i had seen him log to porn sites which later on he said that it were his friends who had used his computer.well after this he had never opened such sites.i have a sister who is divorced.she remaimns depressed .till 10 yrs my husband had never done this but lately we had gone to a hillstation when my husband used to send her SMS on her mobile without my knowledge.those SMS were a little weird obviously not to be sent to a sisterinlaw.thogh my sister did not make an issue out of it but she did show me those which i did not like.on asking him he said that he was trying to take her out of her depression.since then he is avoiding to visit my parents place and even if he does he remains mum.Even though during all those 10 yrs that iam married he is not very comfortable with my house people.then why those SMS or trying to get closer to my sister i fail to undrestand.otherwise he takes care of me and tries to be with me,iam confused heera replied. Hi,
well, the best thing is to ask your sis, coz she would know it best as to what his intention is.
and be a bit cautious but dont express your anxiety to him. ss replied. if you could explain what was there in those sms messages ..then could say something...if it was something sexually oriented or flirtatious then you need to take this little seriously
if they were genuine ones offerign support & comfort to her then try to hang on to those & you need to make use of it to cleanse the relationship between your hubby & your side people....