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I've been married for 3 yrs. Ours was a love marriage. My problem is whenever my hubby goes on tour, we have a big argument before he leaves the reason being I want to accompany him on his tour. He puts up in 5 star hotels and I feel if I go with him, I can see the city, enjoy being with him atleast fora few hours and have a change as normally when he is in station he's very busy and can't take leaves for such outings so I feel that this is a good way for an outing. Am I being demanding? This leads to a big argument as I am not able to control myself and he also does not try to understand my problem because I feel it's not a big problem for him to take me along. Please help with some good advise. sneha replied. Hi,
I think u should respect your husbands desicion. Some people dont like to take advantages. You cant accompany your husband every time. But once in a while there is no harm. There are certain hotels that give spouse free weekends( where neither your husband nor the company has to pay for you visit)you can go with him to such hotels but if you want to tag along with him every time I think its your immaturity. Grow up girl. He is a man with certain responsibilities and if you accompany him every where ( specially if the expenses is born by his company) its going to give him bad name and no respect. I am sure you would not like that.