Relationships  Discussion Forum

Hi i am quiet new to this forum well i keep catching with other forum topics and replies,I and my husband are married for 5 years and we have small daughter she is just completed 3years in March 2006, now i plan to put her in school,I have been working from a long time and even when my daughter was small i used to leave her with the care taker at home , we are staying abroad so my in-laws and parents are not there with me at that time my husband required m,y support but now as he doing well By Gods grace, i am planning to leave my job and spend time with my daughter as when she will go to school she will need me for her home work, activities etc. ,I work 8:30 to 5:30 and return home at 6:00 p.m

1)what do think is it wise to stop working.
2) Will i loose my financial standing.
3) My HUsband is only bread earner at home is it safe to take the risk.
4)How will i stay active and up to date as i am Computer programmer. Ann replied. Don't ruin your career. You can work 8 hours a day and be back when your daughter comes back. Its always good be active. NARA replied. 1) NO, IF YOU CAN WORK. WHY STOP?
TWO INCOME IS WAY BETTER THEN ONE INCOME

2) MAYBE

3) UNLESS YOU HAVE EMERGENCY MONEY, NO
IT'S NOT SAFE

4) IF YOU DON'T WORK, YOU CAN'T STAY
ACTIVE.

EVEN THOUGH YOU HAVE KIDS, YOU SHOULDN'T
HAVE TO GIVE UP YOUR CAREER. WHAT IF
HUBBY LOSE HIS JOB, AT LEAST YOU HAVE
YOUR INCOME. IF YOU DON'T WORK, NO MONEY
COMING IN.......NOTHING YOU CAN DO.