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2005-11-09

Name: Victoria Hi everybody,

I am 24. I got married last year. My husband (29 yrs) do not want a baby now. Can someone tell me that will i face some problems if I delay pregnancy for 2 more years. I heard that late pregnancies can cause problems. Due to this curiosity, i got my ultrasoud & other checkups done and the Doc told me that everything is normal but still i fear that i may not conceive.
Please suggest what should i do?

Also tell me if i conceive first at 27 will i have enough time for the second baby as we both want to have 2 kids.

I keep on thinking all these thing all day & night. Due to this, I have lost appetite and get sleepless nights. I even tried not to think on this subject but can't help.

Please answer my queries and help me to come out of this..

Thanks ...

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2005-11-09

Name: Nini
Subject:

Don't Worry at all

Hi Victoria,

There is absolutely nothing to worry about . You are quite young and have lots of time to have baby. So have the baby when both of you think its right time.

I got married 5yrs back but we decided to have the a baby this year (now i'm 27 and my hubby 33)and it took me only two months to coceive.
And also one of my coworker deleiverd a perfectly healthy baby last month and she is 34yrs.
So I don't think there is anything to worry about.

Enjoy your life.

2005-11-10

Name: Victoria
Subject:

Thanks Nini

Thanks Nini for your help and support. My husband wants to have a baby only after 2 more years so that in the meantime we can get ready for the needs and resposibilities of the baby.. but i was in delemma whether to delay or not. I too think that he is correct.

Thanks once again..

2005-11-09

Name: Leo
Subject:

Dear Victoria,
You are only 24 and married recently. Enjoy time with ur hubby. You are simply thinking about a problem that does not exist at all!!!!!!!!!!!!!Loosing ur sleep and appetite over this problem is not worthy enough.Concentrate on other things. I think it is important what u and ur husband collectively think. It is said that it is better a woman has her kids before 32, u have a long way to go. Discuss it with ur husband and u cud start trying seriously when u r 25. Again it all depends on what u both think. Dont fear that u will not conceive or there will be problems. Remove all these negative thoughts. Be Happy, Stay positive and lead a stress free life.

2005-11-15

Name: Sumal
Subject:

Hey Victoria .. dont worry i got married when iw as 24 now 27 TTC now only. You need at least 2 yrs time to settle with ur hysband and ur environment and then start... Enjoy these wonderful days u will miss it when u have a baby. Lovely days where u r free and close with ur hubby andu say u r recently married ... get to know ur hubby better talk to him about urself and this helps a lot ... 2 yrs will fly my personal experience..

2005-11-10

Name: Victoria
Subject:

thanks Leo

Thanks Leo for your help and support. My husband also says the same thing. From now on i will try to stay positive so that I can lead a stress free life.

Thanks again..

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