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Pl. only good replys i am already in stress. I am pregnant with 3rd child and i dont know what to do should i continue with this pregnancy or not. we are well off. but still worried about reactions people will give me. I dont want to abort how can i kill my baby. pl. help with pros cons if anyone was or is in same situation. GK replied. Thank you so much for ur thoughts.I really appreciate. i am deciding to keep it. Its my baby and my elder daughter is just 5 yrs so its not very late or problematic that way. I am releived. god bless. s replied. If you are well off, the decision on whether to keep the baby or not should depend on how it is going to affect your future, and not about other peoples' reactions.

Keep in mind that there is nothing to be embarrassed about having 3 children. In fact, in the US, the ideal family is supposed to have 3 children.

If your health and financial situation allow it, and you get enough support, then go ahead and bear the child. Keep in mind that if you decide to abort it, you might feel guilty later for a long time, and that could lead to psychological consequences later. Of course, some women can deal with it easier than the others. sj replied. i know at this moment many things are going in your mind .what will people say ,will my other 2 kids feel bad ,financially can i take care of three of them ,can i make them all happy ,etc etc
one thing is clear that bringing up kids require expenses in terms of money nd time
now dontr think about the society
think about your self do u really want third child ,are you really ready to bear these expenses
if yes go for it and welcome the baby
if no i would suggest to go for abortion without guilt
be a parent by choice
i know for some women abortion is killing the baby but it is better to abort then to repent later .
i had gone through one(before marriage
)abortion and i had guilt that i am killing baby but just after it i was so relieved because i didnt want it

sj replied. i know at this moment many things are going in your mind .what will people say ,will my other 2 kids feel bad ,financially can i take care of three of them ,can i make them all happy ,etc etc
one thing is clear that bringing up kids require expenses in terms of money nd time
now dontr think about the society
think about your self do u really want third child ,are you really ready to bear these expenses
if yes go for it and welcome the baby
if no i would suggest to go for abortion without guilt
be a parent by choice
i know for some women abortion is killing the baby but it is better to abort then to repent later .
i had gone through one(before marriage
)abortion and i had guilt that i am killing baby but just after it i was so relieved because i didnt want it

denny replied. Hey ,
Its not that wrong conceive .When u r willing to welcome kid, Dont bother 'bout some others comments? They r nothing to ur life.

My friend ACCIDENTALLY conceived 3rd time and everyone, even her mother suggested to abort.But she bluntly said she cant do it.and want that child to have good life like sibblings.So when her mother was nagging her on this she said \";IT's us going to bringup that child and not any of u..If u cant spare time to help me out during delivery she simply said it's start and we r going to deal everything for that little one\"; .Sure they did themselves without invitng anyone.But her mother couldnt c her daughter to be working alone with 2 kids, she came leaving other responsibilities and helped out.

If anyone comments on having other child she used to answer them like \";YES! WE LOVE KIDS AND WE WANT OUR HOME TO BE LIGHTED WITH THEIR ACTIVITIES SO WE WANT ANOTHER\"; .

So dont worry dear! u r gifting ur kids with another sibbling .now they can njoy together and their kids can n'joy with some cousins. Because I feel bad that I have only brother and my hubby has only one sis..so our kids have very less cousins to play with. where we njoyed goodtimes with lotta cousins.

SO ,CHeerUp.be joyful and welcome ur baby with lotta smiles and happiness.
Good luck!!want to hear soon that u NOMORE care for anyone's comment .

Congrats dear!
hi replied. hi my dear friend


i understand u dear. it is natural to feel that stress, when thngs happen opposite. so, don't be sad. it is for sure, that the little one in womb now will be ur treasure after some months.

hey friend, what other people r going to say?

think dear friend 'OH SHE HAD SEX SO SHE BECAME PREGNANT???? IT IS A GOOD THING. HAVING GOOD SEXUAL LIFE.

SO BE PROD OF UR LITTLE ONE.

personally i have no experiences like this, but my aunt and one of my sister in law got pregnant very late. meansd my aunt became pregnant about 40 and sil third time around 35. they both r proud of their kids.

nothing to worry. ONLY THNG TO WORRY, IS ABOUT UR HEALTH.

HOW IS UR HEALTH? TAKE GOOD CARE OF U.


i know dear, ur responsiblities will be increased. everything, plans has to be changed. ok. how about ur older kids?

anyway, this is something u have to rejoice. really it is a gift. a precious loving gift from God.

so if He give u more responsibilities He sure'll give u the strength to go through it.

take it easy. pray be happy. anyway the thing u son't want happened. SURE IT IS NOT A BAD THING.