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I am very paranoid about many things (that usually turn out to be nothing) but I need reasurance about the problems.

I am taking the birth control pill and I have been for about one year. During this time I take the pill each day around the same time, between 8-12 at night before I go to bed. I have never had a problem with missing my period, or spotting between periods or any kind of discharge or anything. And I always start on the same day, usually the same hour.

Last weekend I hooked up with my x for the night, and he had sex. We used protection but he came in me. I didn't know at the time that he came, so I continued riding him until I felt him go limp. When I got off of him the condom stuck in me. I realized that some of his jizz had to have gotten in me. I became rather scared. I have never had a guy cum in me before. I have always had them use protection and pull out.

So the problem comes in here where it is Saturday, and I am having a brownish bloodish color discharge. This usually happens only the day that I start my period, and the day I end. I have never had spotting like this at this time. I am not due to start my period until Tuesday. What is going on?? My right side on my lower stomach hurts bad.

I have no idea what is happening, and I need some help with people who might know what is goin on. Is it okay to spot, and have cramps even when I shouldn't start my period for 3 or so days??

Any help on this will be great. Thank you so much!! swathi replied. Cathy
I think that maybe you are having period irregularities because of stress. Try to calm down and see a doctor. You may not be pregnant and just be worrying about nothing. But to be sure have tests done---I doubt that you are pregnant because you have been taking pills. Just see a doctor to reassure you.
I hope things will work out fine.