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Single Parenting:how to tell 9yr old child about mother's divorce
2003-09-18
Name: friend



hi
I am a independent woman working as a teacher. I fully agree with ur words but can u help me out for solving a major problem that is how should i tell my 9 yrs. old son about my divorce and till now i am staying with my parents and he thinks that my dad is his Father and as far as my mom is concerned he calls her naani. and i am staying with my parents when my son was 1 1/2 yrs. old. and now my younger sister is getting married and everyone will be there at our house, so i want that i should tell him the fact instead it comes out of anybody's else mouth
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2003-10-10
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Anonymous Name: heena
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hi friend if ur child understood the previous thing , he will definately understand the future thing to happen. but make sure that ur going to be hubby accepts him.
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2003-09-20
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Anonymous Name: heena
Subject:  divorce



hifriend
i dont know the reasons for divorce. but then also u can start withur child saying that whom he calls father is her nana. when he asks that where is dad then u can say that see we got seperated and when asked why u can explain him the reasons. i suppose a nine year old child will be matur a biot to understand things
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2003-09-22
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Anonymous Name: friend
Subject:  divorce



hi heena i agree with ur suggestion but i would also like to ask u one more thing , i am getting married again and i want to explain him that he is his step father, how should i tell him
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