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So you've got one child, and the second (or third!) is on its way. Congratulations!

It is but natural that your new offspring will be showered with attention. This will make your elder child insecure, and this insecurity will manifest itself in the form of jealousy towards your newborn. But with a little bit of tact and common sense, you can save yourself, your newborn and your first born from a lot of heartache.

Nip sibling rivalry in the bud. Quick tips on preparing your firstborn for the arrival of a sibling.

1. Let your child know that God is sending a present especially for her, and that she will have to take special care of it.
2. Involve your child in some decisions relating to your newborn. When shopping for diapers, let her pick out the packets. This will add to her excitement.
3. When the newborn has arrived, be even more attentive to your firstborn.
4. Keep a picture of your firstborn right next to your baby's crib that says DIDI.

Was your first born insecured when his sibling arrived? Share with us!

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