Hi Padma,
I feel you have been very rough in your reply to Riya.
Riya has no business to comment on you or anybody on this board because she does not know anybody. And even if she knows someone, one has to be always careful in voicing the opinions about people which might hurt them.

But you know what, by your reply you have indirectly stated that you are no different than her!
Komal mildly told the same thing in her message and you should also have done that and left it there..

In a sarcastic way you say that Riya should not get worked up so much because it will not be good for her baby. But when you taunt her so much and verbally abuse her, you are not doing anything good for her baby anyway..

I am no friends with my MIL and even if I do not stay with my in-laws I understand VERY WELL how torturous it can be when our wavelengths do not match, how their methods can be drastically different than ours..

Anyway, at one point I thought why am I writing this.. but could not help it, even if it may mean lenghthening the fight.

The point I wanted to make is: NOBODY should forget that this a messageboard and hence should use words with caution. NOBODY has right to violate any person's dignity in any way.

Regards,
Archana
padma replied.
You are not compelled to like the way i respond. But it does bug me to see you passing uncalled for judgements.

I log on to this board to connect with people who have a common interest - babies. But,this board does not mean i will tolerate nasty posts (hormones or otherwise). Komal's was an opinion, mine was a reply.

Your sermon violates my space.