Riya,

Congrats on your pregnancy.

Since you have specially mentioned my name in your post and have openly maligned me by saying that I am a bad mom, I thought I should reply.My friends here know better whether I am a good or bad mom. Also, I dont think anyone needs to tell me that.
Firstly, I think you should have just limited yourself to reading 'all the posts in all the boards' and should have refrained from replying to any of them that too so rudely and drastically. Your post just reflects on your attitude and temperament and lack of maturity to judge the situation when you dont even have a clear pic of what is going on in my life. I think you need to grow up because believe me momhood is not easy and you will have to face a lot. Also to clarify yr point my son is NOT ALWAYS ILL-he doesnt eat and sleep but otherwise he has always been a happy baby and I have always maintained that. HE wasnt doing well for the past one month which you seem to think is always ill. As far as in-laws are concerned I have my issues with them and I dont give anyone the right the interfere, besides my close friends and when they say anything I dont mind at all. As fas as falling ill in here in India was concerned-this is a trend always when you travel from one country to another as a baby needs to adjust and adapt. I myself have been having an asthma attack here after years! So I have no clue what led you to belive what you did!

I would recco that you try and assess the situation before you go ahead and hurt someone's feelings.

All the best for the future,
Reena Archana replied. Hi Reena,

I always felt you are very brave.. You have been handling so many difficult situations alone there (without physical support of your immediate family there).. I just CANNOT imagine myself going through even 50% of tough times that you have already experienced.

Riya was wrong in commenting the way she has done. I can imagine the pain it must have caused you when she talked abt Rishu being ill and other things.

Just don't let it upset you anymore. Leave it.. I know it might be difficult, but she is not anybody close to you (and you might say, who am I to tell you to do anything for that matter.. but I am just a person who knows you a little from your posts and feels for you and wishes the best for you).

If you feel I am giving a sermon, please ignore it, ofcourse.

I am not a regular writer on this board but in last year I feel I have connected with all you and in these kind of situations I feel compelled to write..

So never mind Riya, she is not important person in your life, to disturb you anymore than this.
I feel sorry from bottom of my heart, that you were involved in all this for no reason at all.
And love to you and your bachhu,
Archana.