I am 7 months preg and visits all the board. Com. your board seems quite active . Reena I am quite amazed when you ask whether Megha got ill in India as though you are there in USA your son is always ill. I am sure your In laws will take care of him better than what you do for him. When I read yours paddus and vanis letter I think its better to have daughter than son as I will also become MIL once and my DIL will be like you but than all are not same. Do not feel bad but this is a fact.

Riya Padma replied. Riya,

Congrats.

Are you reading any pregnancy related books/websites? If yes, havent they told you that it'll harm your baby if you get worked up?

As for us, we'll never learn!! We decided to talk all our 'personal' stuff on e-mail, but land up putting stuff for people like you to see!! Mia Culpa.

Just like you've formed an opinion about us, we have about you too. So we're even...

Life's too uncertain for anyone to think that ahead about having a DIL etc.

We're all doing our best for our babies and are concentrating on \";our\"; lives. Hope you'll be able to do the same once your baby is here.

Best of Luck.
Padma

As an aside - Dont you have anything better to do that read ALL the posts in ALL the boards? komal replied. Hi Riya,
First of all Congrats on your pregnancy and good luck for your delivery and coming months.

After reading your message i thought it wasn't you but your pregnancy harmones talking...
You should understand that everybody's life circumstances and situations are different and there is no mother that would not want the best for her child. ....so saying things like this about others without knowing them well is totally wrong.

Take care,
Komal