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Dear friends i am in my 2nd trimester and recently moved from a minnesota to new jersey and looking for a ob-gyn (obstretician and gynecologist) who could and is interested in vbac or vaginal delivery after c-section. my doc in minnesota was willing to try vbac.
I had my first child who is 5 now was delivered in india thru c-sec which was done b'cas of my requesting for it not able to bear pain. Now that i am willing to have a vbac but would like to hear comments from u all friends and ofcourse would like to know a doctor in south plainfield ,edison area. please do help Maria replied. Labour is not as bad as it sounds. Ok it is painful but if it was that excrutiating then women all over the world would stop getting pregnant. Epidural is suggested for a lengthy labour so that you are not exhausted when it's time to push. I suggest you keep your options open...experience labour and see how it feels and if you can't take it then go for epidural. But really csection should be your last option.

I am surprised your gyno in India gave you a csection the first time just because you asked him too. Normally, they only give you are csec for complications and breach babies. At least here in North America I am talking about.

Anyway, I have 3 kids all normal deliveres and I have a very low threshold for pain yet I was ok. The minute your baby is born everything vanishes. That is how god intended it to be! console replied. Why dont you experience both kind of deliveries?its upto you.you can take epidural for pain.vaginal birth is the most amazing feeling one can have.