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Very obvious that a friend of my husband is eyeballing me in a different way..in any get togethers or parties just keeps staring away at me....once or twice he attempted finguring in a crowded place if you could call that finguring exactly?../He is married and has a kid almost our kid's age...I am worried to sick thinking of my hubby whether should I tell him or not and..Does his wife know this.?..she has never been very lively or talking that much in the gang so I could never tell.What is the solution to this anyone suggest something which does not damage anybody's reputation (if hubby comes to know this he might even stop going out with friends that much..he is just my opposite/ a very introvert/shy guy.took lot of effort to get him to mingle with friends even casually...).
How do I 'straighten' this guy without disturbing anybody else.
Please share your suggestions.No harsh or bad words please.Thanks silver replied. It's not u to stay away from this board but another who annoys readers with their indecent replies.So dont worry!Out of replies u cud find decent replies which at least proves some genuine good people r around here with us.So take it light and just dont be guilty for writing on this board.

he is trying to touch means it implies this is worth to think 'bout this problem.I can c ur problem with hubby.If u tell him he might even become reserved to mingle with those other nice guys.

good that U r bold enough to teach him lesson!But take care ,dear..These kinda guys r dangerous enough and if he knows that he is revealed to u,he might become more complicated to u...

So, still I might suggest to ignore him and let him know that u r just hating his indecency only thru ur behaviour than words. It's better not to go parties which he might be invited. bhavana replied. I agree with Silver.I think its best to ignore the person.
But also be prepared to tell your hubby.Its kind of a delicate situation.But inspite of ignoring if he gets too bold you will have to let your husband know about it.Telling his wife might actually backfire and bring other complications,where you will be shown in a bad light.Don't stand anywhere close to that person.Hope he stops bothering you . silver replied. sorry purple,but talking to this guy would not solve problem .
hello myname,I could c ur problem.U cant talk to him.
Just dont look at him ..just ignore howmuch ever u can.
Just DONT LOOK AT HIM AND DONT OBSERVE WHTHER HE IS WATCHING YOU.No needto tell the ways to ignore him.
If u r ignoring ur presence itself says that u r ignoring.( exactly like how u figured out he is attracted to u,) .u r only one can avoid him from looking at u.U just can stop it without disturbing ur hubby. dont discuss with his wife or any close friend even.It leads to unnecessary name on u too.

U'll not be blamed and just dont encourage him while watching what is he doing?!OK ?!!!

if u start ignoring .he'll feel EGO and set right and starts ifgnoring u too. so,it's all in ur hands.
Ok sweety ,take care and dont think much 'bout it. ..

Just ignore ,ignore and ignore....thats the solution. purple06 replied. hi,

the best thing u can do is straight away talk to the person disturbing u. tell him straight to the face that u don't like these kind of activities. warn him if he proceeds further that u will be complaining about this to his family & u'r family. may be later in a good situation u can also tell u'r husband what happened.

be bold.

urname replied. finguring is putting a finger or two into ur pussy/vagina now did u understand the meaning of finguring.. and i guess even u r also interested in this guy and even u love the attention u r getting from him and thats the only reason u have come up with this.. and i dont think anybody would attempt it in a crowded place when u r along with ur friends.... and u got nothing else to think about in ur life presently thats why u r thinking about him... if u feel that wrong then why do u feel sad if ur hubby stops going out with friends where this guy will also be present