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Am I the only unlucky wife whose hubby is always busy with office ?
My hubby is always busy with work .. As he has to commute a lot he leaves home by 8am and is back home after 9pm .. By then he is very tired. And many times he has long calls even after returning home !
Even though I am working, I feel terribly lonely and disappointed after going home ...Whenever I call him to talk something imp, he is either on some other line or in a meeting ...I too want his time ...want to talk /giggle but it doesnt happen. I can think of it only on weekends. This is making very angry / irritated and withdrawn.
Should I seek doctors help to calm myself or its natural ?
Do other ladies also go thru same thing ? or Am I too demanding ?
Busy man replied. Hi,

I'm a business person, I have lots of work load from morning till i go to sleep, I keep getting calls like how u r hubby gets. Hope i too disappointing my wife. Even i'm not able to come out of this busy schedules, week end i'm travelling all other days i will be at office.Infact I need some advice from u friends because i'm going mad if i'm idle just for an hour.But she knows my job that's why she is adjusting.I'm a lucky person i got a adjustable wife. similarly your hubby also should tell. dp replied. Hi there, I have gone thru this last 5ys, we r married for 7yrs, initially 2yrs were comparitively ok, we got sometime, he has travelling kind of job also when he is in station he works almost 8.30am to 10.30 pm, now we have a kid who is 3.5yrs old, since her birth it has been even more tough, whatever time at home and weekend also goes off busy with her. On top of all this recently i had to quit my job to take care of my kid last 4months, imagine my condition, i am almost like a single parent struggling. Life has become very stressful, i am too much attached to my hubby i miss him too much, but we have to learn to live as this is not a shor term thing, it goes on, quite difficult, but i suggest u to take care of urself, join a Gym or a Yoga class, it really helps, start reading some good books, good friends circle, or else we ladies will develop health problems, personal experience, try to do some pooja, try to be happy, enjoy thoroughly in the weekends, nou with the kid we dont know time flies even during the weekend, we hardly get our own personal time to laugh and enjoy, whatever the time we will have many chores to catch up like bills/banks/guests.

All the best, I am here with u. Its tough i Know.
Cheers,
dp my name replied. oh..how lucky I will feel if my hubby kept so busy..?!...