Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi MK/ Blue / UK/Myas,

How are you doing, What u r up to nowdays, how is ur treatment gng on, is there any positive news from anyone end, I am keeping very busy with my baby, so dont reply to any messages now, i hvanet seen any message from anyone of you, so thought of asking that how it is gng.Please do share the information,

UK,
my baby is keeping me v busy, she has started crawling last month itself, now she is trying to stand by her own, also she is teething, so most of the time i am busy wid her, dont even get to know how days r passing,

I wish you all the very Best to all of you, do share good news with me asap.

Regards,

Monica Sai replied. Blue, I havn' t strated anything yet...so far visited doctors..and gathered information from last 4 years. since my case is complex, every one suggested to go for IVF..

but still hope, there might an option other than IVF..God knows...and so still in gathering phase...

i live in US...so my father is looking for IVF center in either Hyderabad or Chennai...Today my mother called and she said abt Dr.Kamala Selvaraj..

All, I am wondering if any one knows about her please... please share ur views.

Mk, I told my father about MMMM doctor...he said he will go to madras next week...

sai MK replied. yes i will always support him.. its one way good that MMM did a test biopsy before going in for icsi as advised by other hospitals.. otherwise we would have wasted a huge amount on it.. im diagnosed with sub clinical hypothyroidism... and very much prone to diabetes.. started putting on weight also.. before any complications occur to me let me hope i can change and convince my husband.. thank you all for your soothing words...
all the very best to blue, sai, likitha and uk.. Sai replied. I am sorry to hear about your report. Time is the only medicine for this kind of problem. I know it is easy to say, but trust me right way, You can' t expect your husband to accept for sperm donation.Give him sometime to digest.

In my case I have a problem from my end. What to do. He is very patient .Sometimes he scolds me that he is getting older and no kids. Next minute he hugs me. But the min when he is scolding I think I am waste to live...atleast If i die...he will marry and get children..

We are all on same boat...So continue giving ur support to ur husband...

I wish you all the best...

Sai MK replied. we diagnosed this problem when we weree just 7 months of mariage life... from then every doc was kept on saying the same.. but we wnated to try out.. i have done my level best to find solution for this problem all these one year.. i have never told my parents.. all alone i used tto go around to different doc to find anything new.. i have been with him all through these time supporting him.. i know how much pain for him to oercome this.. i wioll not even cry infront of him.. but the problem is im also going older... if suppose they diagnose any problem with me tnen this would not be possibe and we have to go for adoption.. which is no way possible for him as well as for me.. other than these there are lots of problem at home thought everything would be alright after a baby.. but nothing is materialising properly... let me see how i cope up with all these.. thanks for your kind concern and replying to me..
all the best for likitha and uk.. UK replied. Everything will be ok. Do not worry. Just think twice before taking a decision about donor sperm. I very well understand your husband (please dont hate me)as no husband will like a donor sperm to have a baby with his wife. Indian men are very pocessive about their wifes. And please dont disclose this issue to anyone as he i will feel shameful in front of the society. Its not at all his fault, it is just a medical problem which has unfortunalty affected him. But give him some time to think of it and still he is stubbron about this please think of adoption...
But just wanted you to check this which says even for azzospermia(nil sperm) they have ivf success.
Take care
MK replied. biopsy came out negative.. means cant go for icsi as there are no sperms.. my husband is not cooperative.. he is against donar.. hell a lot of problems thought everything will be alright after a baby.. but nw..... i dont know what to do.. if i compel him i dont know if he can ditch me with the child... and would feel he is nt responsible.. i cant share to my parents a my mom is already very much affected with all theses... dont know what to do... god has left nothing for meeeeee..... UK replied. MK are you ok. We are worried, please respond. Everything will have a solution. I thought everything was going on fine but now you reply has made us worried. Look at all of us..expecting for soo many years and still expecting for something to happen...
This is not only life we have so many things to do. Their are problems in all families but in our families this is the problem.... having a baby. Please think of your loving husband and give him courage too. Please dont break dwon like this as even we are breaking down.... Sai replied. Blue, I am sorry to hear that news. I am new to this website.

I know how you felt
when report came negative.God havn' t blessed us yet. I am crying from last 4 years for kids...nothing happened I am loosing weight.....:-)

I am planinng to start writing Rama koti...atleast it gives relief....

Sai


Nagasai replied. MK, Thanks for sharing the info.

So you started treatment at MMM. Treatment u mean IVF or other ?

I read online some where for IVF treatment one month before the treatment start, person has to take Birth control pills. Is it true?

and may be personal question where do u live in US or India?

How did U contacted the doctor? By vising inperson or Online?

My case is very complex. I have only one Ovary and tube. And that tube is Blocked. They said distall blockage. I don´ t know why this happned to me.Dotor said very dangerous to open the blockage and suggested us to go with IVF.

I told my father to look for good IVF center in India. He is trying from one side. That information is not enough for us to take decision.

Is there any good forums to get information about IVF centers in India?

Thanks again
Sai.





blue replied. hi monica/mk/mvyas,
i hope all of u are fine. its a long time since i have heard anything from u. so sorry about that. my computer had a hard drive crash due to virus and after that i could not open this website. well friends i have bad news for you. my first ivf was negative. i was completely devastated. i cried for days. my dr. said everything was perfect. i was very hopeful. now dont know how to do the next step. ....
monica i am glad to hear about your baby. god bless u.
MK good luck for your cycle. hope your dreams come true.
best wishes
blue Nagasai replied. MK,

I live in US.For 4 years we have been trying for childern.No Luck.. I am planning to go India for IVF.Please give me information abt MMM and doctor details. I will ask my father to contact him. Also if you can share any other information realted to IVF in India that would be really great...Please help mee.. MK replied. im taking treatment at MMM{MADRAS MEDICAL MISSION} its really good.. i have visited so many hospitals in chennai and bangalore.. but this seems to be good.. no flase hopes given to the patient.. all the employees from junior consultant to the staff nurse everyone are equally good.. highly knowledgable very patient in answering your questions... if anyone needs any info about the hospital you can buzz me will give you the details.. all the very best.. UK replied. Monica,
Nice to hear all good things from you. I happy for you and now U R A complete family. My treatment i have postponded to september as i dont get leave from office now. I have requested for 45 days for the treatment in july but it was rejected and september is alloted for me.I was just being on the safer side, if my treatment goes well i will quit my job or else i will continue going as life has to go on...Trying my best to bring down my weight before my treatment....So monica what have you named ur baby? Gud luck and plenty of kisses for your angel......

MK,

How is treatment going on....
Where are you taking the treatment, as my treatment is postponded i would like to look for a better option now....

Priya,

How far have you been able to reduce your weight and hope your treatment is going well...

Myas,
How r u doing and keep us posted about your treatments....

Liki,
How is your further treatment going on?

best regards MK replied. i can really understand your happiness with the kid.. proud of you girl.. may god bless you with happines all through your life and stay happy since you have sufered enough...

hi uk
yes i got a good team of doctor means not only the doc is good the entire team... every person working there are highly knowledgable.. highly professional treatment... but let me check out my luck.. all the very best for your treatment.. do keep us updated
all the very best