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i am due in 3 weeks and i dnt want my hubby who aint bothered with me or kid during my pregnancy he is being mum's boy, she has split us as she said she wont let us last 6 months and i got married to him last june and knew him year before and he sacrificed his family for me and loved me lot so what has happened now? so hurt and i have left him since december but he told me to back off and i have it was love marriage and now he keeps texting and calling as phone is on divert because he will want to know when kid is born, i aint calling him delivery or telling him. i been in and out of hospital and he has not once since december come to see me.
i aint giving his name on certificate and i am so heart broken. what shall i do?
his mum has splited us and i cant live without him but he is under her influence badly, now i am scared i will give birth to baby and he will try to take it. why is it easy for guys. i suffer all my pregnancy and if his mum says he will do it.
dnt i have any respect.
im only 22 and he has messed me on his mum's saying.
then he tells me he loves me and later he says we might not be together ever, could have divorce then he says he will never divorce.
under lot stress, he knew its affect our kid and its first one and the growth aint good but ok now a bit.
what shall i do?
his mum did this cause she wants her way and i always sacrificed myself did what she wanted but still she took my husband away and my childs father.
really ill, cause i do miss him.
Before marriage he sacrificed his parents for me, loved me lot so what happened now?
he left his parents for me as his parents did not agree to our marriage today he left me and kid for parents. is that how weak his love is?
help
jajaja replied. ask your hubby to draw proper lines between you and parents.
Take legal action. Patrick replied. Hello tanya,
Pray a lot,God will help you.
Speak to your husband I am sure he will understand. I would also suggest you to live with your husband away from your in laws.try seeing a marriage councillor to help you sort out things. swathi replied. Dear Tanya,
I am so sorry for all this pain that you are going through. This is not good--especially when you are pregnant, it will affect the baby. It sounds like your husband will not support you and be considerate of you. If he is like this now, how can he be a good father to your child? Rather, it would be better to be done with him and raise your child on your own with the help of your parents (if they can). It will save you much pain and suffering. For now try not to stress and keep your mind healthy.
worried bout u,
swathi skyesmom replied. Tanya hun Iam sorry I dont know exactly why did he leave? Hes mom is cruel as she sounds my goodness. My df friends hate me too, Iam sorry youre going though this. Try calling or drive in your car and tell him he needs to grow up and be a REAL man!! Keep us posted *hugs* swathi replied. Dear Tanya,
It seems as though you need to get things straightened out with your husband. Here are some questions that could be answered--
Is he going to support you or his mother?
Will he be there for the child after he/she is born?
Why doesn't he want to get a divorce if he is being so weak?
But reading your post, it seems like your relationship is at a dead end if things don't get straightened out quick. If you decide that you want a divorce than you should go to court and obtain child custody if you can do so financially.