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hi helppriya replied. Hi, Thanks for ur message. Can i have ur email address so that I can write to u in detail? aa replied. hi Priya, All of these doubts you are having i had years ago too....I really wish i had listened to my head that told me that this guy will never change...my il' s are VERY possesive of my kids(i should have seen this before...but again i was blind!)..even thought my ils dont live with us, they want to know and be a part of every detail re my kids....I cant tell you what is best for you, but for me, i know that i stay here in this mess for my kids. My mil wants to raise my kids, she thinks she is their mother, she wants to do everything, i just want a chance to be with my kids, is that too much to ask from her? Priya, think hard before you make any decisions, only you can know what is best for you in your life. Ask yourself a few questions,
1. will you work after you have baby?
2. if so, are you ok with mil being with your baby all day?
3. will they object to your baby spending time with your family??
I ask the last ques, cuz my il' s hate it when my family comes to see me and my kids, they are exztrememly jealous....they fight with me again and again....then my husb also fights with me.....i hope this helps, keep in touch!!
aa