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ya, it does not allow u to. maybe keeping in touch with this website is I think the only option. So how are things with u now? can u pl suggest as to what I shoukd do? I dont want to ruin my life. I can have my way but that will be quarelling with my inlaws and making my life miserable too. I live withthem day in day out and work to run away from home. My hubby wont agree to stay apart. pl help.

hi Priya, just think hard and long before making any decisions, if you want to stay with your husba nd work it out, than try to do so....Just remember that having kids will bond you with your husb and his family forever...il´ s will never change, but if you can ignore them and their comments, than it may be easy for you to stay....keep in touch, and all the best.
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i see that you are really frustrated with the current situation and want to change it.its no fault of you if you wish to have a nice life with your hubby minus inlaws.but your hubby might never be able to help you even if he realise your frustration.this is b´ cause he can never hurt his parents by talking about separate accomodation.so to have peace in you,you can do two things.either you yourself let your inlaws know your frustration and let them know that you want to live separately.they might feel bad,hurt.let them deal with it.but in the end they will understand.and if you are lucky,they will even help you.so rather than taking all your frustrations on your hubby and spoiling your relation with him,let your inlaws also know how you feel.
the other option is to learn to adjust.its easy to say than to do.i know.but in the long run,you may even have advantages of staying with inlaws,
all the best
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