Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

i m sure many of you are in the same boat as i am...i have been married for 5.11 years and haven' t conceived even once. In fact have gone to several doctors for surgery of a fibroid, ATT, IVF, general complications, and all this for past four years.
life hasn' t been easy and rosy for sure but still i have a fake hope that one day i might just conceive normally in spite of multiple fibroid recurrence, peritubal adhesion and may be some more unsolved mysteries of the uterus that never let me conceive.I STRONGLY FEEL ABOUT EVERYONE WHO HAS HAD INFERTILITY OR HAS JUST DISCOVERED IT. Positive123 replied. I agree with you both society SUCKS!! Actually nobody can really know and feel what we are going through. I believe that God only gives to people who can handle it. So have faith and things will work out...I have had 3 failed IVFs and 1 worked then I miscarried. It is very hard..but only positive thinking will get us trough this. UK replied. I can understand your feelings Tanz m. But still soo many question arise in me which no body is able to answer. Even doctors have no idea about some. Even after soo many investigations still not 100% clear on what really is wrong with me and WHY? Even myself, i haven' t been pregnant even once nor the symptoms of pregnancy has appeared till date. Every time before my periods I would always have the faith that I will be pregnant but heart broken when I bleed. But still waiting for a miracle to happen. Only and only god has to really open his eyes towards us.
This infertility is bothering me soo much in my life and has brought down my self esteem and happiness. And some of my friends keep talking about their children' s victory stories at school ect which is soo irritating. I m not jealous of them but the very thought of being childless is there. Recently i got a promotion at office and one of my jealous friends came up to me saying “ what happiness in life without a kid, I feel pity for you that” and soo much of stuffs”. I dint open my mouth but poured out. Some of my husband, friends are the same sometimes irradiating him saying “What is the use of a beautiful home with out a kid”. The cry of a baby is a melody at home, what use of living without a kid etc….Society really sucks….
Tanz m I m able to understand ur feelings. So where did you try the ivf? What really went wrong? Try a different clinic once more and try IVF-ICSI(SUCCESS RATE MORE). I hope all is well.