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..iam new to this forum.i dunno this is place fro posting my query,butpls help.
iam married woamn 23 yrs,staying in gulf.ours was love cum arranged marriage,which my parents agreed ony reluctantly.I must mention that i hav so far anice relationship with inlaws.
well my parents alys keep complaining that i married a village ghai,his home is in village etc.they are more like teasing.b4 engaement they were willing like this ur choice go ahead.now there is stepmotherely treatment.now we are also in gulf stayin with my parents,since my hubby got job here.ofcoz my parents never wanted me to stay in india.we are stayin at my parents placz.since in gulf stayin independently is difficult.i mean we hve sky-high rent here and teh current inflation.also since we are beginners arent paid much.
Noe everymonth frm our meagre salaries we HAV TO PAY ALMOST HALF THE RENT.BUYIN OTHER COMMODITIES ARE OK .WE ARE TRETED LIKE TENNATS IN OUR OWN HOME.pl note my parents are earning prety well.my dad is an enginner and mom is sr.admin staff.i hav a brother only,no other gals in my family whom they hav to marry off!!!!!!!!!.Iam preg now but still parents arent so helpful,its my hubby who does.
bcoz of parents we hav fought so much i the past.u know how easy to brainwash human mind.my parents keep on talkin abt advantages of marying someone who was richer,not frm village etc. well atleast i know money can be earned ,we are both professionals and hav good scope,as for village part wat is rong if all people are lovin n carin?sometimes i fell iam their adopted daughter.
can any one pls advsise why they aare lik this?my hubby is very nice to them n treat them like his parents
Rita replied. I read your reply of 27th of May. You quoted: \" money caant b evrything for us.\" You should never hold negative thoughts toward money. Nor should you condemn it. You should think POSITIVElY.
I am a great believer in positive thinking. I practise positive visualization everyday. You should too.

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Anyway, you CAN get rich in varied ways. If you want to know how, first try practising positive thinking and visualization. Secondly, subconscious mind often brings you ideas as how to create wealth for yourself, your husband and your family. I promise you' ll find something worthwhile and inspirational, if you go to Successconsciousness forums. Sheila replied. I am sad that your own parents are doing this. I suggest, now that you are pregnant, to try and stay calm and out of their lives. You seem to have a nice, loving hubby. In the end that is all that matters. Parents want their children to be happy and you should ask them why they would want to make you sad. Better still, walk away from any situation that would make you argue back. It will be hard but it will make you feel so much better.

If you have had issues like this with them before, don' t expect them to change.

I suggest that you thank God for giving you a loving hubby and tell him that all the time. Start building your family life and look forward to moving away from your parents. Once you feel financialy stable, move away and once you have your own place, it is your rule and you will get the confidence to stand up to them. And it will be them coming in to see their grandchild. Even if it costs more to live on your own, it is money spent well. Until then, have patience and take care of yourself. Look forward to your bundle of joy. Be Happy. priya replied. Dont worry about these kind of things. Now u r pregant , so, be happy. Coz of ur lov marriage ur parents r treating like this. After the baby born everything will be ok.

Keep ur mind calm and peaceful to give a healthy born to ur baby. Concentrate more on your interested things.